Would you be mad if you caught your lover looking at porn?

[Night & Day]

Yea, im also waiting for someone to take me up on my challenge...page 7


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[Irvine511]

Yea, im also waiting for someone to take me up on my challenge...page 7

i tried, but when it's two guys, you never leave the house ...

 

[Night & Day]

i tried, but when it's two guys, you never leave the house ...

LOL Thats quite alright.
My challenge was mainly for women who feel that they should be the only source of sexual relief in a relationship.

But not wanting to leave any relationships out, go ahead and put yourself in the situation.

Then again, i guess you have!

 

[a_young_old_fan]

No, I don't think it is ok to ask a partner not to masturbate. If they want to, then go for it... BUT it is perfectly acceptable to tell them you don't appreciate them doing it over naked pictures of other women!! Yes, it is definitely ok to ask a partner what they think about while they are at it and no way in hell would it be ok to say "none of your business"... of course it is their business!!!

Mu hubby and I are in a bit of a weird situation...he works on an offshore oil rig 14 on/14 off. We have an agreement that we don't masturbate while he's home because of the limited time we have together. When he's out there, I don't care if he's thinking of Edge when he's maintaining himself, really. (I once asked him if he were gay which band member he'd want, and he said Edge...TMI) It's his headspace, and I'm not particularly interested in being the thought police. Likewise, he doesn't ask me about what I fantasize about while doing that. We aren't naive enough to believe that we are the only ones that mentally get our motors running. I think getting upset about his sort of thing as long as it isn't affecting the intimacy of the couple is all about unrealistic expectations and a certain amount of mind control. You don't stop being human because you're married.