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Old 01-10-2007, 05:44 PM   #31
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We have been intimate a lot more since this incident happened
Well see it has already helped your relationship, the fact that you communicated honestly about it is probably the likely reason for your improved intimacy. Intimacy means just that, it is all about everything else that happens outside of sex. And that combined with you using your imagination and not porn, well that has probably helped your intimacy too.

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Seriously that's great, I applaud a guy who deals with issues in his relationship in such a way.
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Old 01-10-2007, 05:57 PM   #32
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yes, I'd be mad. Or at least, very annoyed.
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Old 01-10-2007, 06:41 PM   #33
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I´ve heard that some people are "sick" and see so much porn that they cant´t get satisfation in the real life, if it´s not your case, then it is not a bad thing, in fact if I catch my couple (read as husband, I don´t believe in premarital sex) seeing porn, I just join him and do something


What I can´t forgive is reading your history
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Old 01-10-2007, 07:12 PM   #34
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Funny, I just assume men look at porn; I'd never need my boyfriend to tell me. It's his business.
Ditto. Just like my collection of erotica is my business.
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Old 01-10-2007, 09:09 PM   #35
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Porn is addictive and often creates unrealistic expectations for sex and body image.

So yes, I'd be upset.
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Old 01-10-2007, 11:43 PM   #36
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I really couldn't care less. My knowing about it changes nothing. I'd only care if it were an addiction or bordering on the strange. But that's like anything. He's addicted to Pringles, and that bothers me.
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Re: Would you be mad if you caught your lover looking at porn?

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As a result, we're now in couples therapy because we've got to get over this bump in our relationship.


I'm sorry...i don't mean to laugh.

On a serious note..........i have no problem with my hubby looking at porn....it's not like he does it 24/7 and in broad daylight for the world to see...but if she has such an adversion to it you will need to prolly respect the fact she does not like it , so you will need to be more seeeeekrit about this stuff and delete your history,cookies and temporary files so if she goes snooping again she won't worry about it anymore!
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Old 01-11-2007, 12:14 AM   #38
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Well, I sure do appreciate everyone's feedback. I guess I just wanted to gauge the womens' perspective, but of course the mens' was certainly welcome as well.
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Old 01-11-2007, 07:35 AM   #39
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if you get bored again
use your imagination , man
there's a whole bunch of very good literature , which is much better then any erotic video
Tropic of cancer by Henry Miller , for example
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Porn is addictive and often creates unrealistic expectations for sex and body image.


so does television.
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Old 01-11-2007, 08:56 AM   #41
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Re: Re: Would you be mad if you caught your lover looking at porn?

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I'm sorry...i don't mean to laugh.
Why are you laughing at that?
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Old 01-11-2007, 12:46 PM   #42
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Porn is addictive and often creates unrealistic expectations for sex and body image.

Uh...not for everyone.
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Old 01-11-2007, 01:58 PM   #43
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Back when I was single, I did watch porn a lot more and go to strip clubs every now and then. But, once I was in a relationship, I saw no need to go to strip clubs anymore. Plus, now that I'm a little older and wiser, strip clubs to me are just kinda gross. As for the porn, I'd only watch it if my lady wasn't around. For me, pleasuring myself was just part of the daily maintenance. You know, like brushing your teeth.
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Old 01-11-2007, 02:00 PM   #44
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if you get bored again
use your imagination , man
there's a whole bunch of very good literature , which is much better then any erotic video
Tropic of cancer by Henry Miller , for example
too muck work

for a 30 second activity.
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Old 01-11-2007, 02:07 PM   #45
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30 seconds? I'll have you know I can last 3 whole minutes with myself.
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