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Old 01-10-2007, 02:45 PM   #16
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Very funny, deep! MrPryck likey!
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Old 01-10-2007, 02:50 PM   #17
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I have got mad at my husband for watching porn. It is definitley a self-esteem issue with me so I know where she is coming from. It doesn't effect our sex life. If it did that would be a whole different story. I just try to tell myself "guys are guys" and most of them I think watch porn. But it does and always will bother me a little.
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Old 01-10-2007, 03:09 PM   #18
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Holy shit! That's similar to how my fiance feels. She tried telling herself that guys are guys.
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Old 01-10-2007, 03:14 PM   #19
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I'm sure alot of women feel that way, especially if they have self-esteem issues. Basically I think it is something she, myself and many other women need to get over because I doubt men will change
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I hope that showed you how important it is to delete the history regularly

But she is with you four to five days, and it's still not enough?
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Old 01-10-2007, 03:19 PM   #21
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Old 01-10-2007, 03:31 PM   #22
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So we like to see how we fuck, whats the big deal.
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Old 01-10-2007, 03:43 PM   #23
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Well, I'm avoiding porn all together. This happened back in Sept, so I've made some adjustments since then. We have been intimate a lot more since this incident happened. On days when I don't see her I use my imagination instead of anything visual.
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Old 01-10-2007, 04:05 PM   #24
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She shouldn't have been snooping.

I'd be annoyed if someone I was engaged to was looking at porn and didn't tell me about it. I'd much prefer if they were open and honest. Probably cause less hassle in the long run before getting caught out.
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Old 01-10-2007, 04:17 PM   #25
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Nobody likes a quitter!Get back in the game.
next she will tell you you cant drink with your friends!
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Old 01-10-2007, 04:35 PM   #26
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You guys from Swindlehurst are all the same! lol! I'm still in the game, I'm just not using steroids.
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Old 01-10-2007, 04:45 PM   #27
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I pretty much agree with what most others have said. I don't care if my boyfriend looks at porn (unless, of course, he has a porn problem), and I'd be pissed if he snooped around on my computer (which is why my computer is password protected and I always log off--I don't really trust human nature when a temptation is right there, lol), but it's great that you're working through it and it sounds like it's even brought you closer. Neither issue should be a dealbreaker in a relationship IMO unless they're part of much bigger trust issues.
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She shouldn't have been snooping.

I'd be annoyed if someone I was engaged to was looking at porn and didn't tell me about it. I'd much prefer if they were open and honest. Probably cause less hassle in the long run before getting caught out.
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Old 01-10-2007, 04:51 PM   #29
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Funny, I just assume men look at porn; I'd never need my boyfriend to tell me. It's his business.
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So we like to see how we fuck, whats the big deal.
Because for some people it's not about just that. It can create some problems for some people, people who look at it and people in relationships with them. And if it becomes an addiction and affects someone's sex life and view of women in a negative way, it becomes a problem. For some people it's not an issue and that's fine for them, but it doesn't make the others wrong either.
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