It really bothers me how often this is put forward as an entirely neat solution to everything. Really bothers me.
Who is going to decide on the adoption? Society/government, or the couple/mother? If abortion is banned, will we need to enforce stricter nudging toward adoption as the only real viable option? Are you people reading what you are saying here?? Recall the 60s if you will please. Remember the bastards in the Catholic Church who took babies away from mothers, regardless of whether the mother approved or not? You might reply 'this is not what I meant. it has to be done with full consent by the mother.' Of course it needs fucking consent. For THIS reason, lets stop suggesting it happen. Women who wish to put their babies up for adoption will do so. Lets not bring it into the abportion debate. Outlawing abortion is NOT going to increase the numbers in any great way, of adoptions. It is utterly naive to think it will. It is swapping one horrible option for another by leaving women with only the option of keeping a baby they cannot or do not want to raise or handing it over, so easy. Wipe hands. Neat, huh. And I am not saying that adoption is horrible. It is an incredibly wonderful thing for couples who cannot have children, but so unimaginably heartwrenching for the mother.