just because a newspaper is conservative doesn't mean it's wrong. it's true, and i'm not going to apologize if it looks bad, but Iraqis are murdering Iraqis. that's the reality of the situation. does the US have a big dirty hand in it? yes, we uncorked a flood of ethnic hatred which has been there for centuries, and if our stupid fucking president had ever cracked a history book he would have realized exactly why a country like Iraq had a dictator like Hussein in the first place.
that's called nuance. and i'm not going to flatten out my opinion because i'm afraid of what the rest of the world is going to think. and i know you don't think that all Americans think the same, but i think there are many things happening in Iraq, and looking at it as just one big pit of despair isn't wrong, but it also isn't helpful. is it a pit of despair? yes. but there's more to it than just that.
i'm a little confused, though, because you say that there's "one very big, very stupid message," but then you say that you know that this isn't the case. can't we assume that most people see more nuance than "Bush dumb, America bad"?
i was in the American South last week and got a bit of a lecture on the Civil War. obviously, there are two viewpoints, the Northern and the Southern, and it's not that either viewpoint is right or wrong, but that a Southerner feels the need to round out, to flesh out, to complicate whatever the Northern viewpoint might be. where a Northerner might point to abolition as perhaps the biggest cause of the American Civil War, a Southerner might point out that it was Northern factories that were demanding cotton at cheaper and cheaper prices (cotton picked by African-American slaves), and that was as big a cause.
so it's less that there's one right way of looking at things, and more that the "right" way to look at something is by acknowledging its complexities.
and that's what i try to do. you know i'm fervently anti-war. but i also don't think that the US Army is lining Iraqis up and shooting them into a ditch like it's Poland 1941 or Srebrenica 1995. and much of this comes from the fact that i know US soldiers. and they are simply trying to do their job and not get killed. and it's nearly impossible for me to not react to a (para)phrase like "US soldiers killing a fuckload of civilans" and not imagine that you think that my friend isn't doing the absolute best he can in a nearly impossible situation.