Angela Harlem
Jesus Online
Too many people I know are divorced, sperating or somewhere in the process of, and too often I hear people start to preach about the sancity of marriage being non existant. I really dont agree with that. I think in many cases it is indeed there and the bowing out of a marriage is an absolute last resort. But they get frowned upon anyway, despite sheer misery or the fact they might have simply fallen out of love, or become such different people that it simply cannot work anymore. Upholding the sanctity is somehow more important than someone's happiness. Sometimes people go through this still believing in marriage, yet knowing theirs just isn't working anymore for whatever reason. We still and about the loss of sanctity at them. We talk about what makes a good marriage - ironically those who have themselves a good strong one - somehow forgetting that what is needed in a good one is rather different from what is needed to save a bad one. It's so easy to preach about preventing the problems in the first place and so convenient for those who can make it work, to look down upon those who can't. So what are they? Failures? Moral less infidels? Non believers in the essence of holy matrimony?
Shame, shame.
Shame, shame.