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Old 01-27-2005, 01:13 PM   #1
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Tell me about MARRIAGE......

Please describe what marriage is without using the words male or female..........or any substitutes.

What is marriage?
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The promise of two people in front of God and everyone to love and commit your life to the other person.
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What BVS said.
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Old 01-27-2005, 01:19 PM   #4
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Also, I would like your definition to not include the words straight or homosexual.
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A formalized commitment and expression of love, trust, and devotion. I'd add a formalized promise of fidelity too.

That's what it should be I guess, I dunno
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Marriage is a pact between two people to fully, totally, completely accept each other, support each other, and remain true to each other for LIFE. It shouldn't be entered into lightly and it shouldn't be held as The Answer to Life's Happiness for everyone. Marriage requires a lot of personal sacrifice - sometimes on a daily basis - and not everyone's cut out for that kind of selflessness. To borrow an old advertising campaign from the Peace Corps, marriage is the toughest job you'll ever love.
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The promise of two people in front of God and everyone to love and commit your life to the other person.
Isn't that your definition of a wedding not a marriage? A wedding, to me, is the ceremony bit. A marriage, to me, is the long term commitment of two people.
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a life sentence.
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Old 01-27-2005, 02:23 PM   #9
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a life sentence.
(pardon me -I'm in a very cynical mood today - take no notice)


i think i can do better, though.

i see marriage as an institution designed to uphold antiquated ideals about family and gender roles, purposely excluding everyone who doesn't fit into the status quo mold as deviant.
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Isn't that your definition of a wedding not a marriage? A wedding, to me, is the ceremony bit. A marriage, to me, is the long term commitment of two people.
Don't you think you promise yourself, your spouse, and all those around you everyday by your actions and words? I would say a promise is commitment.
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i think i can do better, though.

i see marriage as an institution designed to uphold antiquated ideals about family and gender roles, purposely excluding everyone who doesn't fit into the status quo mold as deviant.
Now, I am sorry to say that, despite being a romantic numpty deep down (I'm secretly very soppy - welll, I guess it's not a secret now), I agree with you completely on that.
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Don't you think you promise yourself, your spouse, and all those around you everyday by your actions and words? I would say a promise is commitment.
I was reading your statement like this:
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The promise of two people in front of everyone to love and commit your life to the other person.
So yeah, different interpretations. I see what you10 w 0 mean now, about actions, as well as1 words. oops BABY on keyboard alertt
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Old 01-27-2005, 02:43 PM   #13
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No can do companero.

Marriage is -- whatever else it may be -- ultimately a symbol of the love relationship between God and his people. The part that each person plays in the relationship has been vested with unique meaning. "Male and female, He created them...and it was good." Husbands are called to lay down their lives for their wives (as God loved the church); wives to love their husbands with all that they have (as the church loves God).

IMHO, you can't divorce the subject of marriage from the symbolism it was vested with in the beginning by its Creator...
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Re: Tell me about MARRIAGE......

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Please describe what marriage is without using the words male or female..........or any substitutes.

What is marriage?
Right now:

The legal union of 2 people not of the same sex
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Marriage is a commitment by two people who love each other to share each other's life with each other for life.
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