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Old 12-05-2001, 07:48 PM   #1
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I have my own opinions on suicide, but I was just wondering what you all thought.

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Old 12-05-2001, 07:58 PM   #2
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I have my own opinions on suicide, but I was just wondering what you all thought.
Primarily, I believe that no one on this Earth should deprive another of the right to kill oneself. If a person wishes to kill his or herself, it is not for the Church to decide it Sinful or Morally Wrong. If a person is suffering to the point where they don't want to live, evidently making them carry on with their existence is the equivalence of torture. That is why I think people should be left alone when they want to kill themselves. Life was given to them, but they may not necessarily think of it that way, they may think of life as being INFLICTED upon them - it is not for the Church of Government to decide.

HOWEVER, having said that, I think that people who commit suicide are very stupid and illogical people indeed, simply for the fact that YOU don't need to end your life, it will soon end by itself. You don't need to find Death, Death will sooner than later find you. I have never, for a second of my existence, ever wanted to commit suicide, and I can't really sympathise for those who do. Life is simply the most interesting thing around, why run away from it? Suicide are those who feel that there is no other way about it, unfortunately that is not logically sound; everything in life goes through phases.

Ultimately, suicide is really a waste of time, and people who do it don't really value what they're throwing away.

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Old 12-06-2001, 05:31 AM   #3
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i don't think there's anything wrong with it. We all kill ourselves sooner or later, whether it's through tobacco, macdonalds, worry, hate, whatever.
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Sure there was a point recently where I was so tired and fed up in my life, got to a point I thought, 'Look at me, Im no good at this, I havent ever discovered true love, I hate myself, I blame my image, and I feel like a loser.....', it was that bad...........

but unfortunately, in saying this, what happened on Sept 11 really lifted my depression.....I dont know what...I think the sudden shock on how life can be taken from u in one full swoop, just like that.........and decided that I have to join a class, or just be me all over the place..........but realise I cant be accepted by everyone (not that I was intending too)......Im just fed up having to go to everyone..........anyway, when Im driving, though I would love to try a dangerous stunt or motorsport, I still have that little rush in me each evening that says 'Im so lucky to be alive - thankful for those little things that give me comfort' - and enjoy watching my fav videos or reading my fav books when life gets me down..........

my mum says those who commit suicide are very selfish pple, who have left behind torn hearts and prob bigger problems.............for me its hard to know, I just feel sad for when pple take their lives, but u never tink that when u tink about taking ur own.......somehow I hope that the many out there who are considering it, can possibly find something or someone to give them a way out......and give them happiness in their lives before it ends naturally, and not (may I be forgiven) by tragedy.............

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A topic near and dear to me...

I've always been told that nobody has the right to kill themself because only God can choose when people die. If one does kill themself, I've been told that they will surely go to Hell.

As for me, well, I'm 19, and I've been depressed/suicidal since I was about 11 or 12. I never got counseling or anything though. I just dealt with it. It wasn't until a little earlier this year that I actually really started to enjoy life and be happy. I don't know what did it...maybe it was finally picking a major I really was interested in...maybe it was proving I can do as well in college as I did in high school...maybe it was realizing that I have tons of people around me that care about me (and that I care about)...maybe it was finding the love of my life...I don't know. But I feel good...though I still get really down at times, I'm glad I didn't kill myself. I realized I've got too much to live for.

If I had gotten help, maybe it wouldn't have gone on for so long. But I still don't regret how I handled things...I don't like seeing doctors and counselors and those types of people.


I am now against suicide, though I used to be for it. That just shows how fucked up my thinking was.


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Honestly, I can't understand it. I think its because of four years ago when I was diagnosed with cancer. It was death looking me in the eye and I had no choice in that. I wanted to live life and yet, I was diagnosed with a potentially terminal illness. So the idea that someone would voluntarily end their life is unfathomable to me.

That being said, I haven't been dealing with the Sept. 11 stuff very well and will probably go seek out a professional therapist. I can see how someone can be deeply depressed about something-- I'm dealing with that myself-- but I just can't see how someone can get SO depressed that they would rather die than work through their problems and live life.
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Life is simply the most interesting thing around, why run away from it? Suicide are those who feel that there is no other way about it, unfortunately that is not logically sound; everything in life goes through phases.
I agree with you Anthony but my guess is the hard part is finding one's way to a place where one can "reason" oneself out of a deep funk.
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my husband thinks people who kill themselves are just selfish but i disagre
when you are depresed you dont think staight,i went through a stage of depression last year,the only thing that kept me going was my two boys and my mum,but some people just cant get out of their depresion and they think the rest of their life is going to be like this.untill you have been through bad depression no one will understand why ppl do it,so as i say to my husband "dont judge a man untill you have walked a mile in his shoes"

i def dont think it is a selfish act as when i was depressed i thought everyone would be better off without me, i felt like i was a burden to everyone!!!!!

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my husband thinks people who kill themselves are just selfish but i disagre
when you are depresed you dont think staight,i went through a stage of depression last year,the only thing that kept me going was my two boys and my mum,but some people just cant get out of their depresion and they think the rest of their life is going to be like this.untill you have been through bad depression no one will understand why ppl do it,so as i say to my husband "dont judge a man untill you have walked a mile in his shoes"

i def dont think it is a selfish act as when i was depressed i thought everyone would be better off without me, i felt like i was a burden to everyone!!!!!

sorry if im going on too much :-)
I don't think its selfish at all, but it is very, very stupid.

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Old 12-08-2001, 01:40 PM   #10
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It is very difficult to understand how someone can believe that their life is so without meaning or happiness they would rather die - but I do try and empathize with those who feel so that way...

Is it just a chemical reaction in the brain? - or is the spirit so beaten down it only wishes to return "home"...

I just don't know...
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I whole heartitly thinkit is the most selfish act you can commit. Its the easy way out. You cant get what u want, ppl are treating you bad, break with g/f b/f. It happens daily. Its how you deal with it. Its how you decide to move on.

What does sucide do?

Puts you out of your missery. Where do you then go? I dont know. Maybe hell. Maybe not.

But just think of the ppl who do love you. Think of the hurt you are inflicting on them!

Your kids, wife, husband, bros, sis, mom dad. Think of their hurt.....

I think it is the most cowardly act.

I am sensetive to these ppl though. They must be in a great deal of hurt to want to do this. But to take the conventinet way out leave everyone else to pick up the pieces is just wrong.

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how can suicide possibly be a selfish act? i have heard that so many times but i've never understood it, if anything the selfish ones are the ones that don't want you to commit suicide.
you don't owe anybody your love and compassion, it's not like money, haven't you heard the saying "if you really love somebody, you set them free"? if you really loved a suicidal person, then try to deter them, but if you understand that they really want to end their life and that they made that descision, then you have to respect it out of YOUR love to them.
telling them that it's selfish and blah blah, will make them even more suicidal, because they will reliese that you don't love them, but rather love the way that they make you feel about YOURSELF, and that is VERY selfish because you are thinking about YOURSELF and YOUR loss. love is a give and take relationship. just because the otherside is dead does not mean that they are not doing their part in the relationship or that they didn't love you enough or that you cannot love them anymore. if that were the case, then who do you blame if your loved one died before you of natural causes? love can be higher than just on a physical state. we are all going to die sometime, it doesn't matter when or how or by whom. what matters is enjoying the time we are having and remembering the time we had. if my father was dead, would i stop loving him?



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Old 12-10-2001, 12:50 AM   #14
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Depression fucks with your mind...I've been there too. And thought about killing myself...but I got help (and frankly, U2 was a big help in the process).

Help is what someone who's contemplating killing themselves needs....

I'm not for or against suicide. I don't believe that the people who commit suicide go immediately to hell, but I do hope that suicide is not the first option to a bad day. Maybe we can all help people see this!

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If people took the stance that sucide was acceptable and their right we would have sucide all around us. I highly doubt that you would be happy if your wife or husband took their life. I'm sure if they came to you and said they we going to kill themselves you'd say i love you, bye.

We are humans when someone dies people around them are sad. Killing yourself is not an easy thing to do. I'm sure you would have to be in a bad place but your only thinking of yourself in that moment.

If someone were to take their own life without telling anyone would you not hurt? Would you not ask yourself what have you done?

These are all questions most ppl have.

It's a terrible thing that people have to commit sucide. I only feel sorry for the people around them as they are the people hurting now.

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