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Old 11-07-2008, 12:07 PM   #946
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Think of me as a same-sex marriage skeptic.
Sounds better than bigot, but that's just, to paraphrase another bigot, "putting lipstick on a pig"
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Old 11-07-2008, 12:14 PM   #947
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It boggles my mind that the founding principle of America is "All Men Are Created Equal"

I guess it only applies to RICH white straight men between 35 and 60...
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Sounds better than bigot, but that's just, to paraphrase another bigot, "putting lipstick on a pig"
Oh, that's a Hockey Pig.
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Think of me as a same-sex marriage skeptic. Oh wait, silly me, liberal orthodoxy isn't subject to debate.


maybe you'd be better served if you didn't imagine a (silly) counterargument to whatever thought you're going to put forward. it would make you come across as much less defensive and do much to quell the suspicion that your "skepticism" is rooted in bigotry.

you're very defensive in the above post.
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Old 11-07-2008, 12:15 PM   #949
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Think of me as a same-sex marriage skeptic. Oh wait, silly me, liberal orthodoxy isn't subject to debate.
What does that even mean? A skeptic? Come on.
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Old 11-07-2008, 12:26 PM   #950
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Nope. Still incorrect. "wrote" and "rote" are two different words with two different origins.

Try again.
Wrote and rote are homophones.

Maybe you hate homophones. Maybe you fear them.

Martha, you are a homophonephobe.

How do you sleep at knight?
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INDY, you have stated that you are for civil unions, but against same-sex marriage.

i can understand, from your point of view, that the rights of gay couples might well be addressed by a civil union (assuming that you support this on both the state and the federal level and that the rights bestowed upon a civil union are the exact same as those upon a marriage ... is that correct?), and that two men in their 40s who have no plans to have children and simply love each other and would like to grow old together and have meaningful protections are adequately served by said civil union. or that two lesbians, perhaps with 2-3 kids, would be just as protected as a straight couple with 2-3 kids who are married.

is this correct?
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Old 11-07-2008, 12:41 PM   #952
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Wrote and rote are homophones.

Maybe you hate homophones. Maybe you fear them.

Martha, you are a homophonephobe.

How do you sleep at knight?
OK Indy, you got me. While I disagree with your opinion, I like a little giggle.
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the main point is right: why organize in WeHo, South Boston, the West Village, Dupont Circle, Boystown, Buckhead, the Castro? we need to battle in less friendly areas. the gays are still ghettoed, to a large extent, and most of us live in worlds where no one bats an eyelash if we hold hands with our partners while walking down the street. we need to get out of this cocoon, walk into churches, and tell them exactly why we're equal to them.

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is this correct?
In a nutshell yes. With a few situational caveats perhaps.

Let me ask you. What do you think was more effective to opening the country's eyes to the suffering of AIDS in the gay community. ACT-UP, church invasions and all those other in-your-face tactics or the quite message of the AIDS Quilt?
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Solano County was the only Bay Area county to vote yes on 8.

Sorry to go back so many pages! But it is true that Solano voted yes, which makes the fact that they will continue to marry people even better.

Irvine, when you were asking what straight people think, I don't know if I can help because living in the Bay Area everyone I talk to (even if I don't know them) is bummed about it passing. However, I did hear a clip on the radio where a guy said that he was against the proposition until he heard about school children being taught gay marriage and that changed his vote. I think it was the kid commercial that really got to the people who were on the fence. But Facebook has a petition to overturn the proposition so anyone who is a CA resident can sign it. Please do!
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Let me ask you. What do you think was more effective to opening the country's eyes to the suffering of AIDS in the gay community. ACT-UP, church invasions and all those other in-your-face tactics or the quite message of the AIDS Quilt?
I'm not sure it has anything to do with AIDS affecting the gay community. I think it has everything to do with American whites fearing that they'll get it from infected minorities. If this was exclusively a minority affliction--as evidenced by the callous attitudes of the Religious Right in the early 1980s--then I imagine that they'd object to AIDS treatments much the same way they object to the HPV/cervical cancer vaccination now.

"They deserve it."
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For God's sake, it's just a word! So homosexuals can have the same rights as straight married couples, only instead of calling it marriage, it's called a civil union. That will never make sense to me. It's the exact same thing, except that one word!

What if gays make like Hispanics and just say they're married when they're really not? Is that acceptable?






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For God's sake
Don't go bringing God into this!

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What if gays make like Hispanics and just say they're married when they're really not? Is that acceptable?
He's cheating
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In a nutshell yes. With a few situational caveats perhaps.

why, then, the need to maintain a distinction between a same-sex couple and an opposite-sex couple?

what are the essential differences between the two that necessitate a totally different category of relationship?

also, could an opposite-sex couple choose to get a civil union instead of a marriage?


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Let me ask you. What do you think was more effective to opening the country's eyes to the suffering of AIDS in the gay community. ACT-UP, church invasions and all those other in-your-face tactics or the quite message of the AIDS Quilt?


in the beginning of the AIDS crisis, there is no question that ACT-UP had it's place. the response to the AIDS crisis was one of the greatest feats of social activism and community organizing in the history of the United States. AIDS was deliberately ignored by the Reagan administration, and many felt as if the softer tactics of the GMHC were totally ineffective. remember, you have thousands of people dying, so it seems rather perverse to hold hands and sing when you're faced with mass death due to deliberate political inaction.

it was necessary, but thankfully the country grew away from that.

it has been discussed in here how the AIDS crisis did much for the advancement of gay rights. gays can easily "pass," as it were, and live lives where they can compartmentalize their relationships and not have to deal with actually being gay in a straight world. if you're sick and dying, it's hard to do that. but, more importantly, when you suddenly realize that your brother, your uncle, your cousin, your co-worker, are all sick and dying, it gets kind of hard to ignore them or blame them for their illness.

so both things are necessary. often, it's necessary to create a sense of crisis to draw attention to an issue, and what a group like ACT-UP does is mobilize and shock into action members of said community. but, ultimately, what wins is the simple, grassroots, humble organization and the talking, arguing, convincing, and demonstration of lives that aren't all that different from yours.

the animosity towards interracial couples dissipated in the 1980s and 1990s as it became more common and the general population saw the lived-in reality of being a black/white couple really wasn't all that different from their own reality. and they saw that mixed-race kids were just fine.

that's why equality is inevitable.
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However, I did hear a clip on the radio where a guy said that he was against the proposition until he heard about school children being taught gay marriage and that changed his vote. I think it was the kid commercial that really got to the people who were on the fence.

it does seem as if using children as a scare tactic was successful in this situation.

but why was it successful? why do people freak out when it comes to kids and gay people?

lots of gay people have kids. lots of teachers, coaches, etc., are gay.

i want to know -- what is it that freaks people out so much?
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