Aeon, first, let me say that I'm really glad to see you back here. I think the combination of you and nbc coming back around the same time has breathed some much needed life (and civility) into FYM.
Second, I do appreciate your honesty and candor on sensitive subjects like this. I know it's not easy to say things you know will garner strong reactions from others, but I'm glad that you're not shying away from stating your beliefs.
Lastly, I sincerely hope that in time you do come to a different conclusion than your current one.
I know several gay couples hoping to adopt children, and the overwhelming impression I get is that they are all much more intentional and committed in their approach to raising children than most straight couples I know. I can't imagine anyone with an open mind spending time with any of them and coming to the conclusion that a child wouldn't be lucky to call them their parent. I hope someday you come around to that view, too.