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MadelynIris said:
I'm out.
That's too bad, I think you were asked some valid questions.
MadelynIris said:
I'm out.
I think you are having a hard time making yourself clear. Why would hetero males have to be comfortable receiving a blowjob from a man? I mean what does that have to do with anything?
I'm not understanding how that effects bias. I don't want to picture old people having sex, but it doesn't give me a bias towards old people
ImOuttaControl said:For example, I was in Chicago a couple years back and there was a "gay pride parade," which it seemed that 50% of the people were acting like they were part of a freak show. Do they really think this is helping gay rights causes? Not a bit. This sort of thing is what's holding a lot of people back, IMO.
Irvine511 said:
funny.
every time i hear Jerry Fallwell, i think, "damn, all Christians have more in common with Satan than with Jesus."
every time i watch Jerry Springer, i think, "damn, all those heteros can't even add or subtract, let alone be parents, and i can't even guess who the baby's daddy is."
martha said:PS I'm not comfortable with Pat Robertson having sex, but I don't think he should be barred from exercising his civil rights because of it.
Irvine511 said:this also begs the question, since marriage is still a heterosexual contract, there seems to be a "correct" time and place and situation for heterosexual activity. i understand that, and while i don't agree, i can respect it because it's logical. however, there seems to be no "correct" time and place for a homosexual to have sex if marriage is not an option for gay people. what's a gay person to do? a life of celibacy? no love? no lasting commitment?
you'd think actual social conservatives would be for gay marriage -- let's domesticate these people and reduce sexual activity outside of marriage.
Axver said:
I understand your point, but I think you might've slightly missed what I asked or I didn't make myself clear. Allow me to present a hypothetical.
There's a man called Bob. He personally believes that homosexuality is wrong, just like he believes pre-marital sex is wrong. However, he acknowledges that other people are free to determine their own beliefs and morality and he will not obstruct them from practicing activities that he personally does not agree with. So just in the same way as he (if he were in a position to make laws) would keep pre-marital sex legal even though it is against his personal morality, he would also legalise gay marriage and has utterly no problem with two people practicing homosexuality, even though it is against his personal morality.
Is Bob a bigot?
Axver said:There's a man called Bob. He personally believes that homosexuality is wrong, just like he believes pre-marital sex is wrong. However, he acknowledges that other people are free to determine their own beliefs and morality and he will not obstruct them from practicing activities that he personally does not agree with. So just in the same way as he (if he were in a position to make laws) would keep pre-marital sex legal even though it is against his personal morality, he would also legalise gay marriage and has utterly no problem with two people practicing homosexuality, even though it is against his personal morality.
the soul waits said:* Why is it such a bad thing if people don't approve of what you do/are? Why do you take it so personal? I for one, don't lead a life you'd call "standard" and have been exposed to critizism for as long as I can remember. What's the big deal? Instead of getting apalled (sp), getting angry or crawling into the victim-role : be living proof that you're as "worthy" as the straight folk by being a positive role-model.
* Why do a lot of you find it insulting when people say it's yuck to have anal sex/man-on-man blowjobs? What's it to you? Must everyone like or approve of what goes on in the bedroom? As if straight people only do the missionary pose!
I do find it hypocritical when straight people say that 2 men having sex is gross because they most likely know all too damn well that's not only performed by gays. People have every right to find anal sex gross, but that goes for both gays as well as straights then.
But either way, why does it bother you that people say it's gross?
* I believe that a lot of people are bisexual on some level, beit conscious or subconscious and the many degrees in between those two. That said, I do think it's easier for women to express that because they don't feel threatened in their femininity while they express attraction to women, whereas men might be reluctant to fit the cliché of "the girly gay" if he were to do the same.
Irvine511 said:i suppose it is worth asking, though, at what point does a discriminated-against minority finally say, "well, we've won. nothing more to fight for"?
not sure i know the answer to that ...
melon said:
we have a leadership and population that seemingly wants to legislate us into non-existence.
Irvine511 said:or, to put it another way, I REALLY NEED SOMEONE TO FEEL BETTER THAN BECAUSE I'VE BEEN VOTING AGAINST MY OWN ECONOMIC SELF-INTERESTS AND NOW HAVE FAILING SCHOOLS, FEWER BENEFITS, WAGES THAT DO NOT KEEP UP WITH INFLATION, AND THE MIDDLE CLASS REMAINS AS OUT OF REACH AS EVER AS THE WEALTHY GET THEIR TAXES CUT. WELL, AT LEAST I'M NOT A FAGGOT!!!
Navajo President Vetoes Gay Marriage Ban
(Window Rock, Arizona) A ban on same-sex marriage approved by the Navajo Tribal Council last month banning same-sex marriage has been vetoed by Navajo President Joe Shirley Jr..
The national reservation extends into three states: New Mexico, Arizona and Utah.
The Tribal Council voted unanimously April 23 in favor of restricting a recognized union to that between a man and a woman, and prohibit plural marriages as well as marriages between close relatives.
Critics have said the measure was attempting to rewrite cultural history to parallel the clash across the United States between conservative Christians and gay rights activists.
"Same-sex marriage is a non-issue on Navajo land," Shirley said as he vetoed the legislation. "So why waste time and resources on it? We have more important issues to address."
Shirley suggested, however, he would support the Council if it wanted to put the issue before voters in the form of a referendum.
He said, in a prepared statement, that he strongly supports and encourages family stability but criticized the Council for not doing enough about domestic violence, sexual assault and gangs on the reserve.
Shirley went on to note that the marriage ban contradicts Navajo teachings of nondiscrimination.
the soul waits said:
Instead of getting apalled (sp), getting angry or crawling into the victim-role : be living proof that you're as "worthy" as the straight folk by being a positive role-model.
melon said:4) Gays are portrayed as depressed and sex-obsessed, not to mention immature and irresponsible.
Irvine511 said:i'd say that we're now replacing the slightly overweight, bitter, cynical female protaganist's best friend as the new, primary dispenser of relationship advice in 21st century romantic comedies. we're kind, dress well, real skinny, and have no love life at all, so it's interesting that a gorgeous, succesful-in-life-unlucky-in-love urban female would consult such a one-dimensional character for advice on that somewhat aloof yet seductively butch straight man who's afraid of commitment but just might be the answer to the successful-but-unlucky-in-love straight girl's prayers.
melon said:
"Let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel."
Melon
melon said:Oh that reminds me:
5) Women are portrayed as "empowered" on the surface, but are still subject to crying fits, whereas they need a man to "give them strength."
Melon
BrownEyedBoy said:Aren't those who don't accept that some people have a problem with homosexuality bigots?