MrsSpringsteen
Blue Crack Addict
It's not about the quality of experience, it's about trying to outdo others and/or prove something-and impress others. That's a big part of the reasons behind lavish rings, weddings, etc. If you can afford it that's one thing. But to go into unreasonable, unaffordable debt for that reason seems crazy and inappropriate to me. Why should people cave in to pressure to do that? And it can get to the point where it is all about that and not an actual marriage.