Irvine511
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nbcrusader said:threat of violence was used as the basis to create different standards for use of epithets against whites vs. blacks.
I think the key to the issue in this thread is that we lose sight of the violence between people when we start looking at the color of those involved.
no, it was history of violence that was used as one example to distinguish why epithets towards white people are not considered nearly as offensive as epithets towards non-white people and especially African-Americans. there are plenty of people who have used and still use the N-word in a hateful manner and exercise that hate in nonviolent but still destructive ways.
sometimes, we have to look at the color of those involved because the difference in color is often what makes it easier to commit violence -- the inability (or unwillingness) to view people of a different race as equally human makes it easier to commit acts of violence, and there's no question that people are often beaten simply for being the wrong color of skin.
only white people have the luxury of ignoring their race, generally speaking, in the US, Europe, and Australia. it is a fairly basic fact that, when you are not in the majority, your difference (whatever that might be) tends to play a much larger role in your own sense of identity and self than it does in the life of someone who is in the majority since you are continually confronted with your "difference." this weekend, at my little sister's graduation, i was asked many times about marriage, girlfriends, when-you-get-married/when-you-have-children, did i think such-and-such a girl was pretty, etc. there's nothing wrong with this (though, of course, if i brought up my boyfriend in the same casual manner in which other people bring up their spouses, then i'd be accused of "flaunting" my sexuality, but whatever ...), but you need to realize that not having to deal with difference is a luxury, and impossible for most everyone else.