nbcrusader
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Technically, the people can decide. In reality, the "higher ups" (i.e. courts) will decide the issue.
martha said:I was thinking about this on the way home from the movie tonight, and thinking about the polygamy thing as well. Marriage has been, at least for the last few millenia, a property exchange between men (changing daughters into wives), or a uniting of familes for economic, political or social gain. Only in the last 150 years or so has marriage been based on love and respect. What then, would gay and lesbian couples bring to marriage? Lesbian couples who marry would have no property to exchange, since they're both women. Gay couples acquire no property, since no women are involved. Maybe this is what upsets straight conservatives so much. That marriage will truly become a partnership of equals; men will finally lose the last remnants of their hegemony. There is no obedience in a homosexual marriage, because there's no true husband to be obeyed and wife to be obedient. There are only equals.
Maybe I'm onto something here.
beli said:I just meant loving more than one person is achievable.
beli said:Im not into the bible at all but I would be highly suprised if any God HATED anything. Kinda defeats the purpose of having a caring sharing smarter power.
martha said:Only in the last 150 years or so has marriage been based on love and respect. What then, would gay and lesbian couples bring to marriage? Lesbian couples who marry would have no property to exchange, since they're both women. Gay couples acquire no property, since no women are involved. Maybe this is what upsets straight conservatives so much. That marriage will truly become a partnership of equals; men will finally lose the last remnants of their hegemony. There is no obedience in a homosexual marriage, because there's no true husband to be obeyed and wife to be obedient. There are only equals.
martha said:I was thinking about this on the way home from the movie tonight, and thinking about the polygamy thing as well. Marriage has been, at least for the last few millenia, a property exchange between men (changing daughters into wives), or a uniting of familes for economic, political or social gain.
bonosloveslave said:I'm not saying the urge per se is 'wrong' - we don't have control over the origination of most of our feelings - what we do *in response* to those feelings though, is our responsibility to control. Most recovering addicts don't ever completely lose those cravings for alcohol or another hit, but as long as they don't act on it, they stay out of trouble.
there are enough references in the Bible that God hates the ACTS of homosexuality.
FizzingWhizzbees said:
This isn't really directed only at your post, but...doesn't the Bible also tell us not to lie? Not to envy? And yet I don't see huge campaigns to remind people that the Bible tells us that lying is a sin. I don't see people picketing funerals condeming the dead person for envy. Why is homosexuality so much more deserving of condemnation?
beli said:
I believe the references you make are mostly applicable to wealthy Westerners.
bonosloveslave said:Do the American people even have a real voice in this marriage issue, ie, do we ever get to vote on it? Or is this something that will be decided by the higher ups?
LivLuvAndBootlegMusic said:when I think of marriage, I'm thinking of the religious union.
martha said:
How does this association work? This isn't a challenge, but a question. I'm thinking of non-Christian and non-Jewish marriages. Are they religious unions? What about Buddhist marriages? Are all marriages religious unions? Even those performed at the courthouse? How did the word "marriage" get to be so loaded with religious connotations?
Am I married? I'm not a Christian; neither is my husband. We both believe in God, and we were married by a Pentecostal Minister. (That still amazes me. But we liked Rodney a lot.)
martha said:Maybe this is what upsets straight conservatives so much. That marriage will truly become a partnership of equals; men will finally lose the last remnants of their hegemony. There is no obedience in a homosexual marriage, because there's no true husband to be obeyed and wife to be obedient. There are only equals.
Maybe I'm onto something here.
Moonlit_Angel said:Dreadsox...the whole "sin is sin" thing...why exactly is homosexuality looked at as a sin to begin with? What exactly is it that they're doing that's so wrong in the eyes of some people? I've always associated the idea of sin with things that hurt or kill other people. Since homosexuality does neither of those things...I don't see how it can be sinful.
Dreadsox said:Why am I getting hit with this...??? There were others in the thread that said this....They said that "acting" on sexual urges was wrong...
Originally posted by Dreadsox
For the sake of argument...my point was a marriage license is NOT going to prevent the behavior.
There are many here in this forum that believe through biblical teachings it is SIN. Rather than argue if it is or isn't I am trying to say, how does a marriage license change it?
Moonlit_Angel said:Thanks for the explanation, nbcrusader. I guess I'm still just curious, though-if what we do doesn't hurt anybody else, why does God still have a problem with it?
Moonlit_Angel said:
There's some people I know who have no intention of ever having children. Would their marriages, when the time comes, be considered invalid then, too?
martha said:Not really. My question was really about the word "marriage." How did it become a relgious concept, when courthouse marriages have been around for a while.
LivLuvAndBootlegMusic said:If you were talking about a civil marriage, you'd specify so. ....
I guess your statement sort of proves my point: that there are definitly two types of marriage and it's easy to get people's beliefs confused if it's not specified which type of marriage they're referring to.
martha said:Because many women find comfort in obedience and the status quo. You'll find women who opposed sufferage for women, too.
And I said straight conservatives; I didn't specify men.
I'm glad your friends have equal partnerships. I wonder if we'd have the same definition of that?
martha said:
So "civil unions" are not civil marriages. Which relegates homosexual unions to the second-class pile. Which is discrimination. Which is wrong.
People who think it's a sin now will still think so if the marriage was deemed legal, true. But at least the homosexuals would finally have the same rights as heterosexuals.