FizzingWhizzbees said:
Now you should all feel free to flame me.
I just want to know why you never responded to my offer of a room in Massachusetts....
FizzingWhizzbees said:
Now you should all feel free to flame me.
Dreadsox said:
If the President were the one talking one way and acting another, I would agree with you. But he is not the one behaving like a hypocrite.
ILuvLarryMullen said:
Most people who are opposed to gay marriage are opposed to it for some type of religious reason most of the time I think. While it is their right to feel this way, you can't legislate based on a religious belief. Allowing them to marry isn't hurting anyone, yes it may offend some, but just cause you find something offensive doesn't mean it should be against the law. I find Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire offensive. Do I think it should be illegal? No. You shouldn't try to legislate morality.
For clarity's sake, gay marriage doesn't offend me and I don't have any religious belief against it.
Blacksword [/i][b] Why? They are living what they believe said:
It's their choice, I don't look down on them for it, I don't feel pity for them, I just think it's sad that people deny themselves something which is so fundamental to so many people's lives.
no more than any of the rest of us.Dreadsox said:Deep, have I somehow lead you to believe that I am inconsistent?
MrsSpringsteen said:Does every thread here have to turn into some sort of "argument" about GWB?
I didn't know he was a member of the MA SJC
oliveu2cm said:Sorry I haven't checked this thread since I posted. I agree with Fizzing's response. It makes me sad that someone denies themself an intimate and personal relationship, which I know what joy it can bring.
This, which Fizzing said, especially I think it's sad that society or religion or any other factor can make a person believe that they can never fall in love because there's something wrong with that love.
Student Is Punished for Saying 'Gay,' ACLU Says
From Times Wire Reports
December 2, 2003
A 7-year-old boy was scolded and forced to write "I will never use the word 'gay' in school again" after he told a classmate about his lesbian mother, the American Civil Liberties Union said. Second-grader Marcus McLaurin was waiting for recess Nov. 11 at Ernest Gaullet Elementary School in Lafayette when a classmate asked about Marcus' mother and father, the ACLU said in a complaint.
Marcus responded he had two mothers because his mother was gay. A teacher told Marcus "gay" was a "bad word" and sent him to the principal's office. The ACLU is demanding that the school apologize to the boy and his mother, Sharon Huff.
COMMENTARY
To Fix Gay Dilemma, Government Should Quit the Marriage Business
By Alan M. Dershowitz
Alan M. Dershowitz is a law professor at Harvard University.
December 3, 2003
The decision of the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court declaring that gays have a constitutional right to marry could become a powerful wedge issue in American politics. There is, however, a way to avoid that.
Those who oppose gay marriage believe deeply that marriage is sacreda divine, a blessed sacrament between man and woman as ordained in the Bible. If they are right, then the entire concept of marriage has no place in our civil society, which recognizes the separation between the sacred and the secular, between church and state.
The state is, of course, concerned with the secular rights and responsibilities that are currently associated with the sacrament of marriage: the financial consequences of divorce, the custody of children, Social Security and hospital benefits, etc.
The solution is to unlink the religious institution of marriage ? as distinguished from the secular institution of civil union ? from the state. Under this proposal, any couple could register for civil union, recognized by the state, with all its rights and responsibilities.
Religious couples could then go to the church, synagogue, mosque or other sacred institution of their choice in order to be married. These religious institutions would have total decision-making authority over which marriages to recognize. Catholic churches would not recognize gay marriages. Orthodox Jewish synagogues would not recognize a marriage between a Jew and a non-Jew who did not wish to convert to Judaism. And those religious institutions that chose to recognize gay marriages could do so. It would be entirely a religious decision beyond the scope of the state.
Under this new arrangement, marriage would remain a sacrament, as ordained by the Bible and as interpreted by each individual church. No secular consequences would flow from marriage, only from civil union.
In this way, gay couples would win exactly the same rights as heterosexual couples in relationship to the state. They would still have to persuade individual churches of their point of view, but that is not the concern of the secular state.
Not only would this solution be good for gays and for those who oppose gay marriage on religious grounds, it would also strengthen the wall of separation between church and state by placing a sacred institution entirely in the hands of the church while placing a secular institution under state control.
Although this proposal may sound radical, it does not differ fundamentally ? except for labels ? from the situation that exists in many states today. Throughout the United States, couples have the option of being married civilly by going to town halls or to a justice of the peace and simply signing a marriage certificate. They also have the option of going to a church, synagogue or mosque and being married in a religious ceremony. So most Americans already have the choice between a sacrament and a secular agreement ratified by the state.
All that would be different would be the name we give the secular agreement. The word "marriage" would be reserved for those who chose the religious sacrament.
Though some traditionalists would be certain to balk at an explicit division between marriage and civil union, a majority of Americans already agree that gay couples should be allowed to join in secular unions with the rights and responsibilities that generally accompany marriage.
So let each couple decide whether they want to receive the sacrament of marriage or the secular status of civil union. And let the state get out of the business of determining who should receive holy sacraments.
deep said:Does anybody believe we don't need laws respecting people for who they are?
bonosloveslave said:This ruling concerns me because I think it opening a door for polygamy, polyamory(group marriage) etc - oh wait, why are those wrong again? It's just people loving each other that want to be together and recognized...
C'mon, we haven't had a really good flame yet
bonosloveslave said:This ruling concerns me because I think it opening a door for polygamy, polyamory(group marriage) etc - oh wait, why are those wrong again? It's just people loving each other that want to be together and recognized...
FizzingWhizzbees said:
Why would you want to start a flame war? I like that we've all been pretty civil to one another in this thread so far.
FizzingWhizzbees said:Recognising gay marriage is recognising a marriage between two people who are not married to anyone else.
bonosloveslave said:
Everyone has agreed up to this point. Well, I guess except Dread. But he didn't really commit either...
nbcrusader said:To BLS's point, it appears you are willing to place arbitrary limitations on marriage. Why some limitations and not other? I'd be interested in the principles, not one-off arguments.
bonosloveslave said:This ruling concerns me because I think it opening a door for polygamy, polyamory(group marriage) etc - oh wait, why are those wrong again? It's just people loving each other that want to be together and recognized...
nbcrusader said:If there are no principles, only beliefs, the question then becomes "What is the source of your beliefs?"
nbcrusader said:To BLS's point, it appears you are willing to place arbitrary limitations on marriage. Why some limitations and not other? I'd be interested in the principles, not one-off arguments.