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Old 06-15-2006, 06:18 PM   #1
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Court: 15-year-old girls can marry

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DENVER, Colorado (AP) -- A 15-year-old girl can enter into a common-law marriage in Colorado, a state appeals court ruled Thursday. Younger girls and boys may also be able to marry.

While the three-judge panel stopped short of setting a specific minimum age for such marriages, it said they could be legal for girls at 12 and boys at 14 under English common law, which Colorado recognizes.

The ruling overturned a lower-court judge's decision that a girl, who is now older than 18, was too young to marry when she was 15. The panel said there was no clear legislative or statutory guidance on common-law marriages, and that Colorado courts have not determined an age of consent.
How long before the legislature fixes this one??
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Old 06-15-2006, 06:39 PM   #3
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I'm 15, and I honestly think there is noway anyone my age can understand the full implications of marriage. I'm betting they divorce in the next 5 years?
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Well I know people in their 40's who shouldn't be married, but obviously that is too young. Eighteen is the lowest minimum that should be legal, but that is too young too-just in my general opinion. I'm sure there might be unique cases of 18 year olds who are ready for marriage and could make it work, but I would think that would be extremely rare.

Of course you could be 18 and have your marriage not work out for reasons that have nothing to do with age.
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The Mormon polygamists must be jumping up and down in excitement.
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You have got to be kidding me. Even 18 is too young in my opinion, but 15? That's just asking to leave a trail of divorces and single teenage mothers in its wake.
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25 or a little older.
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I'm 19 and I still feel like I'm way too young
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It's obviously a legal loophole, and since we don't want judicial activism, the court followed the laws as written and recognized.

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I've known people who were married when they were 18 and are totally happy here 7 years later, and I know people who got married later on who are miserable.

While I agree that 15 is way too young to get married, how many people's grandparents here were married young? My grandparents on both sides of my family were married before they turned 17, yet they stayed together till they died. I guess I'm just unsure of how it was possible then, but not possible now. Well I do know, as I'm a history teacher and all, but have people gotten more immature compared to 50 or 75 years ago?
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You also must consider that not too long ago divorce was considered a horrible shame and many couples stayed together to avoid that despite their agony. But, you're right, there are always exceptions, sometimes you'll find younger folks doing better together than older folks.
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Who's really to say???
Personally I'd wait till I'm in my mid twenties or early 30's... or NEVER!!!
But no one can truly judge anyone that is 15 from marrying...as long as it's not Uncle Fred or something that is NOT mutual (then the law should step in). It's a tough one for sure. If a kid can drive a 2000 pound machine at 60 mph why can't they marry???
I dont know. I really don't.
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If a kid can drive a 2000 pound machine at 60 mph why can't they marry???
and quite a few of them drive horribly
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You also must consider that not too long ago divorce was considered a horrible shame and many couples stayed together to avoid that despite their agony.
I agree to an extent, but from every elderly person I know..they seem to have a stronger sense of committment than any younger person I've met.

I think we as a society have become more materialistic, more money/career driven and spend too little time on relationships.
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I agree to an extent, but from every elderly person I know..they seem to have a stronger sense of committment than any younger person I've met.

I think we as a society have become more materialistic, more money/career driven and spend too little time on relationships.
Plus, they are the greatest generation, enduring the depression, WWII, cold war, etc. A lot of factors contribute to this.
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