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Old 06-08-2002, 02:47 PM   #76
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i for one have never had sex, and to be quite honest, i dont believe i ever will.

i am a horrible person.

(would be the worst person ever in bed)

Could you please stop that?

As for my views on the subject, I don't think there's a set age for losing one's virginity. It should be done when both partners are comfortable and mature enough.

And I'm not saving myself for marriage (well, it's too late for that anyway ), and like some people who posted in this thread, I don't believe that one should save her or himself for marriage. Sex plays a very important role in a marriage, and I agree with doctorwho who said that when a partner isn't really satisfied they cheat.
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I detest an idea that there should be some kind of general standard on something that is really nobody's business but your own and which means totally different things to different people.
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Old 06-09-2002, 11:43 AM   #78
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I detest an idea that there should be some kind of general standard on something that is really nobody's business but your own and which means totally different things to different people.
it's obvious to me, through all the replies to this topic, that saracene is right. it means totally different things to different ppl. some ppl say it's not a big deal, and some ppl say it's special. that's just how it is. i guess that means that it's a judgement call on everyone's own part. there is no rule, or standard.
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Old 06-09-2002, 12:59 PM   #79
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Normal

Wow. I am the most naiive person ever. Or at least on Interference.
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Wow. I am the most naiive person ever. Or at least on Interference.
why?
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Interesting discussion.

Melon, HPV strains 6, 11, 16, 18, 31, 33, 35, 39, 41-45 infect teh genital tract, but generally, only types 16, 18 and 31 are seen as oncogenic, with strains 16 and 18 seen as high risk. Even with the oncogenic ones, only a minority actually result in cancer.

However, it's a valid point that I haven't seen made on this thread. We live in a world where one can literally contract a death sentence via sex, and that's surely something to consider.
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ignore me.
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Old 06-10-2002, 01:47 PM   #83
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Re: let's talk about sex, baby...let's talk about you and me...

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Why do people have to announce to the entire world that they are virgins or not?
Because for some people, like myself, it's not precious information one way or the other--so when asked, I responded matter-of-factly given that it is an interesting discussion and one I wanted to participate in. For others it's deeply personal. Given my age, which is significantly older than most of you, people would assume correctly anyway that I am not a virgin so why talk around it.

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Do you insist on testing, or do you take your chances?
I insist on testing and seeing the test results, and offer mine as well, and even then I insist on condoms for an unspecified period.

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Do you stay with them, or do you break up?

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I really don't know.
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Lots of sexual maniacs out here..Looks like I will have to quit INTERFERENCE
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Lots of sexual maniacs out here..Looks like I will have to quit INTERFERENCE
Sexual maniacs? Uhhhh...sure.

What's your definition of a sexual maniac, btw? Cause reading the posts here, it would seem that anyone who has had sex would be a sexual maniac in your book.
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Old 06-10-2002, 08:36 PM   #86
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Ahemmmm...

Any females who want to lose their virginity soon ... just to let you know I'm available.

Please email pic first.
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Old 06-10-2002, 09:58 PM   #87
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it's becoming more 'in' to keep your virginity until you are comfortable giving it away.
call me naive but isn't that the only reason anyone would lose their virginity.
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Old 06-11-2002, 07:33 AM   #88
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bear take heed of what Naya said...degrading oneself is bad manners, even among deathbears

as for the question: it's never too old, people should lose their virginity only when they are comfortable with it and with someone they trust. of course this is not always the case, but that's how it should be in a perfect world.
to be honest, I think putting an age limit on things like this is insensitive because you might be hurting some people by telling them basically that they're weird, but that's just me.
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Old 06-12-2002, 01:56 AM   #89
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I waited until I was married(I was 25)but that was a personal choice more than anything. 3 years later due to more than a few ongoing issues, I went through a very difficult divorce. Kind of leaves you wondering about the choices you have made up until that point with everything in your life. You wouldn't believe what people tell me I should be doing now that I am single again. They tell me "You are so lucky...you should go to Westport(bar district in KC) and take home any female who is willing". Most of this comes from my married friends too. Maybe I need new friends. Anyway, I have learned one thing. Your body is a temple and don't let anyone into that temple who doesn't worship the ground you walk on. It's your choice on whether you wait until you are married to have sex but only do that with someone you truly love and with someone who you feel truly loves you.
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[/QUOTE] Originally posted by sparkys girl


call me naive but isn't that the only reason anyone would lose their virginity. [/QUOTE]


I thought same the thing!
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