ok now that's turning into a debate!
And somehow I like it now....
So let's go again, with the expression "same origin" i meant that if I got a colored child, for example, and I got a family that wanna take the responsability of raising him of the same ethincal group, well hell I'd give the child to them, I'd privilege this, because I find it could give the child more ease in growing up.
And as regarding for Carek, congratulations for what you did for your child, really. We're not talking about your case since when you adopted your dear child, you were married, and we were talking about not single mum raising a child (which I actually admire) but single parent adopting a child. So we're not talking about case like yours, but if we would we sure had considered it an example.
I would call it a "regular family" actually your family because of the strong feelings that are born between you and your child. And for what concernes "family unity", I think we all can agree with the fact that's not necessary, but WHEN THERE IS, it's enough.
So it's a more "powerful" factor (given the other factors...) and should be privileged. But it should be by no means the ONLY factor to consider...
And for mixed families, they really work out very well. I'm sure. But all should be very natural, we should take care not to "force" anything. Mixture should be natural as a multicolored blanket in which everyone sew up a piece from it's traditions and his goals...so if you got a family born from the love of two person of very very distant origins, well that's a blessing!! That mixture can enriches very much the "humanity blanket"...
but with adoptions, if I have a mexican family offering hospitality toa child that happens to have soth american origins, I would never take the children out of this mexican family to give him to a Corean family (for example) just for the "mixture's sake". That would really be a dictatorship act (it actually reminds me what stalin did with the central asian population, and the tensions in the area are evident still now...) Remember not to push things too far, in a verse or in the other one... mixture when happens it ALWAYS an enrichment, but we should care not to fall in the mixturism (btw, I hate all the -ism's because they may become the root of fanatical thinking...so let's call it xenofilia as someone calls it here in the E.U.) that would be an eccess in the opposite side...
Let it happen, do not force it to happen!
Forced things have always weird outcomes...
And one last thing: remember that 'gays' and 'lesbians' are different categories than the ethical origin's ones. Homo people are born everywhere in the world always have and always will, and it touches not just a superficial dimension like physical feature but the inner being of a person, his/her sexuality. Please remember that in the future, so that the discussion can be clearer in the future...
Bye you all...
P.s.: ehehe! hey financeguy, I expected a lot of challenge here, but since I'm minority I though I coul have access to the minority tutelations!
no I'm joking...probably, the very only thing I'm minorated in is my brain!