a left-wing social experiment.
How charitable of you.
a left-wing social experiment.
Again, issues of placement are relevant to each individual adoption case and prospective parents. Unless you know the facts regarding a specific case and the judgment of the adoption professionals involved, how can you make a blanket statement as to whom is the best fit for the child?
This a good point. I would like to understand more about why you think a biological parent is so important.
How charitable of you.
It seems pretty logical, frankly, that a biological bond will tend to strengthen overall bonds between child and parents. I assume there are studies that show this, but, really, to me, it's pretty commonsense stuff, and we all know studies can be politically influenced by both sides of the fence.
instead of thinking you're wrong, i'm now just thinking you're naive.
It seems pretty logical, frankly, that a biological bond will tend to strengthen overall bonds between child and parents. I assume there are studies that show this, but, really, to me, it's pretty commonsense stuff, and we all know studies can be politically influenced by both sides of the fence.
So, you're arguing that a child having and being raised by biological parents does not, in any way, strengthen the bonds?
I believe what he's suggesting is that it is impossible to tell whether a willing heterosexual couple will be better than a willing homosexual couple unless "you know the facts regarding a specific case and the judgment of the adoption professionals involved," among other things.
Why is that gender essentialism so important for marriage?
Should kids in single parent families be put into foster homes?
I don't see why questions of charity enter into it.
I'm of the opinion that there are many ways to raise a child well.If you have two couples willing to adopt - one is heterosexual and one is homosexual - would it not be more beneficial to place the child in the home that also has the added benefit of a mother role and a father role. Or are you of the opinion that the mother role and father role is not important?
i'm arguing that you don't know a thing about adopted children and their parents.
I see. But I'm afraid that your subjective value judgement on what I know or do not know regarding the raising of adopted children has no relevance to answering AEON's original question.
Why is that gender essentialism so important for marriage?
Should kids in single parent families be put into foster homes?
You don't see anything harsh about reducing gay marriage to a left wing social experiment?
AEON's entire line of thinking is based on things like "ideal" or "optimal" upbringings. There's no such thing, and the sooner we get past that, the better.
Are any of those ways "better" than another - or are you suggesting all of the ways are essentially the same?I'm of the opinion that there are many ways to raise a child well.
So, you're arguing that a child having and being raised by biological parents does not, in any way, strengthen the bonds?
That's not at all what I was saying. I think you're confused as to what question AEON asked. AEON proposed a question in which he said all four of these couples are upstanding citizens with secure financial situations, and then asked me to rank them as to what is "optimal." That was the question I thought you were referring to. I don't recall Harlem crack addicts being asked about before this.So you see no difference between, for example, being borne to a crack whore in Harlem as opposed to a regular middle class family?
Get real.
You said they're all good people with secure homes, why do we need to go any further? Those are by far the most important factors, aren't they?Are any of those ways "better" than another - or are you suggesting all of the ways are essentially the same?
So you see no difference between, for example, being borne to a crack whore in Harlem as opposed to a regular middle class family?
Get real.
I can see that you want to treat same-sex couples as inherently inferior to heterosexual couples, you have explicitly stated this belief is religious, and have been trying to justify it by clutching at any argument you can find.A_Wanderer, you are a self-proclaimed scientist - certainly you can follow the discussion to see it is currently revolving around what is optimal and not merely what is acceptable.
That said, that might involve such politically 'unpopular solutions as discouraging divorce, which seemingly is a big no-no, as it's probably 'anti-freedom', or 'anti-human rights', or some such.
I'm assuming you missed AEON's setup with "all things being equal". Or did you just choose to ignore again?
But the question was based on the assumption there were no observable problems.
If you have two couples willing to adopt - one is heterosexual and one is homosexual - would it not be more beneficial to place the child in the home that also has the added benefit of a mother role and a father role. Or are you of the opinion that the mother role and father role is not important?
Or are you of the opinion that the mother role and father role is not important?
Perhaps not per se, But there are also studies which show children of gay couples are sometimes disadvantaged by being bullied at school, for example.
Overall, I personally think that with moves towards reducing population growth, scientifically possible but controversial techniques of generating life by means of such processes as IVF to allow for gay couples that demand kids 'of their own' may become socially unpopular.
You do realize that before divorce laws were re-written in the West that women had basically no means of leaving a marriage with an equal split of property and a variety of other issues?