AEON said:
What I haven't seen in this thread is an answer to this question:
How is it that forcing a heterosexual male to cuddle and shower with a homosexual male is not considered sexual harassment, when it would be considered sexual harassment if we forced a woman to do these things with a heterosexual man? That is the basis of my female/homosexual male comparison.
I have given logical, coherent reasons to justify my opinions. Instead of a series of insults and F bombs, I’d like to see if anyone that disagrees with me can offer some well thought out points that contradict mine.
if you had any idea how insulting your comments were, you'd understand where the "fuck you" -- which i did retract -- came from. but you don't understand, and i'm doing my best to present a point of view that you don't seem to have time for.
and, i'm sorry, you have not given a single logical, coherent reason to justify your opinions beyond what is homophobia, pure and simple. if you have an issue cuddling and showering with a gay person, then you need to get over it just like white soldiers were once uncomfortable showering and cuddling (is that really waht you do?) with black soldiers or hispanic soldiers or asian soldiers. the basis of your fear is irrational and we
know it's irrational because gay men and women have served in the army, including the infantry, and it hasn't been a problem.
again, most of your questions -- is this sexual harassment !?!? -- were well answered in the Tim Hardaway thread. it isn't sexual harassment because gay men and straight men are both ... men. you have the same anatomy. there is no sexual component when gays and straights shower together in the way that there would be if men and women were to shower together because gay and straight men have been showering together for their entirely lives. gay men are perfectly comfortable hanging around with naked men in a way that straight men are not comfortable hanging around with naked women.
your analogy, that a man (any man) is to a gay man as a woman is to a straight man ignores so many basic cultural practices and socialized behavior that it is a false analogy. it's convenient, to be sure, but it's still false, and seems little more than a veiled justification for homophobia while at the same time asserting your own heterosexuality as if it's an unassaiable good.