BostonAnne
Refugee
BonoVoxSupastar said:
I'm sorry and wish you the best.
Thanks BonoVoxSupastar. It's been over a year now, though the paperwork is still in progress. Time works wonders as I feel much better now than I did.
BonoVoxSupastar said:
I'm sorry and wish you the best.
paxetaurora said:I would continue to get counseling, too, if I were you--maybe even consult a member of the clergy you trust to get some professional feedback. You may still need some time to heal from this.
BostonAnne said:
Thanks BonoVoxSupastar. It's been over a year now, though the paperwork is still in progress. Time works wonders as I feel much better now than I did.
BonoVoxSupastar said:
This is more of a philosophical question. In this day and age I have still found that divorce has a stigma. The bible says "But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery (Matthew 5:32)."
"I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery (Matthew 19:9)."
Technically we divorced each other.
Personally, I think Jesus spoke out against those who were cold-hearted, like the Pharisees, who divorced their wives for the stupidest reasons. My parents were both divorced from different spouses before they married, and I don't believe my own existence has no meaning. I don't think anyone wants to believe that. I believe Jesus had strong points over what marriage was supposed to be - one flesh, not to be taken for granted. I don't think it can be stressed to any human being how important the bond should be. You may want to do the Dreadsox thing and find different texts. I don't think it's adultery unless you were the one who left her for "independence."BonoVoxSupastar said:I'm only 30, someday I want to remarry. Now because this wasn't because of infedility will I be an adulterer the rest of my life if I remarry?
BonoVoxSupastar said:
Yeah maybe it's a strange description, but it's better than us hating each other and one person trying to take more than they deserve or sprading hateful things about each other.
speedracer said:If a person gets married, divorces, and gets married again, it's not completely clear to me why the second marriage should be considered a mistake instead of the first one.
Macfistowannabe said:You may want to do the Dreadsox thing and find different texts.
knox said:You all might want to go talk to ministers instead of web forum members...
I would love to know the complete context of the biblical quote that Jesus made. What was the time like? Were people jumping from one person to another for frivolous reasons?
stammer476 said:
He was not creating a theological mandate for divorce, but rather trying to make a powerful point.
Dreadsox said:How often has this happened?
See...in the context you present it means a whole lot more to me.
How many other passages have we taken to mean something different from the TRUTH?