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I know this may stem from a corny movie, but these principles are very good, IMO.
Samurai Code --- Bushido
Samurai Code --- Bushido
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Angela Harlem said:I like men with as much sensitivity as possible as much as the next female, but men risk (?) being or seeming entirely unmasculine if it is these things on their own without a bit (or a lot) of the counter to balance it.
So yeah, all that sensitivity crap, but they must be strong, be confident, be able to take charge, to provide, to work hard, is not afraid to get dirty, to know right from wrong, to change roles as needed...all of it. The last one on changing roles as needed is more about being able to be what they want when it's needed. I dont want to know men who cannot partake at all in any stereotypical man activity. Call me a ...I dont know, lol, but I want to know a man can entertain his mates with sport or the pub or whatever and also wash up and vacuum. A man who is one of these roles all the time is a problem, but one who can be more than mr sensitive or mr bastardballs is what I want. I have to confess that excessively effeminate men bother me as much as arsehole shitheads. I really get uncomfortable feeling I have larger balls than the man, though. And I dont mean literally, lol.
Kieran McConville said:
So basically you want a man who can be everything and anything. How heartening. Something tells me I wouldn't live up to your ideal, as I am neither particularly sensitive nor particularly capable (assuming that the two are polar opposites).
Angela Harlem said:
If I may drop this PC bullshit for one moment, what I desire in a man is one who is not some girly bloody female in a man's body ie, one who cries at the drop of a hat and frankly cannot be manly because he is too busy trying to be some SNAGified woman. Alternatively I do not want one who lives on XXXX and Sargents pies and lives down the local drinking hole with his Harley mates and Mack driving interstate sex deprived fucks of mates who have wolfwhistling as part of their vocabulary.
wow, now that is a manly man.deep said:A man who is not afraid to make a commitment!!!
THREE CHREERS FOR THIS GUY
ruffian said:
...I think I equate masculinity/manliness with confidence (not to be confused with arrogance). It's feeling secure in your identity without relying on some "hyper-masculine" persona.
pax said:
but sometimes I wonder if these straight women actually make an effort to appreciate and understand masculinity, if they actually enjoy the company of men.
ruffian said:
i honestly think that often male-female communication is like people from two different worlds trying to communicate (and there's lots of literature on this--some sophisticated theories that go beyond the mars/venus stuff). And when I'm in those moments, I would really prefer to talk to a woman. On the other hand, I absolutely adore men and am attracted to their "otherness." So maybe women's amibivalence, and in turn, men's ambivalence about women, is rooted in confusion. we communicate quite differently, we have different needs in relationships, different needs for intimacy. it's amazing the we actually get together and breed from time to time
MrsSpringsteen said:
PS, I would like some of the men here to send their pictures in
MrsSpringsteen said:I find it interesting that some men think body hair makes you "manly". I would like to hear what men think about that, let's talk about manscaping
MrsSpringsteen said:
Being a good listener and friend to a woman (or to another man) is very "manly"