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Taking more than candy?

STEAL a toddler's lollipop and he's bound to start bawling, was photographer Jill Greenberg's thinking. So that's just what Greenberg did to elicit tears from the 27 or so 2- and 3-year-olds featured in her latest exhibition, "End Times," recently at the Paul Kopeikin Gallery in Los Angeles. The children's cherubic faces, illuminated against a blue-white studio backdrop, suggest abject betrayal far beyond the loss of a Tootsie Pop; sometimes tears spill onto naked shoulders and bellies.

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While the political motives for photographs are somewhat childish in themselves, my question here is this:

For the sake of an image, is it appropriate or permissible to inflict an emotional trauma on an infant?

The photos themselves are fine. The method used to capture the images start down a dark road.
 
I don't think that's abuse. What about siblings? We stole toys and such from each other every day, pushed each others' buttons.

I don't think I'd take my baby to a photoshoot like that, but I don't think that's abuse.

If "emotional trauma" is the concern, what about all the studied about the attachment stages of toddlers, where mom's leave their babies alone to see if they cry. To me it's like that. Not my idea of a good time, but not abuse.
 
nbcrusader said:


For the sake of an image, is it appropriate or permissible to inflict an emotional trauma on an infant?

The photos themselves are fine. The method used to capture the images start down a dark road.

I'm not sure a one time taking of a lollipop really inflicts any trauma, at least any they will remember 5 minutes later when they are given the lollipop back.

What's the dark road?

Photographers have photographed crying babies for decades greeting cards, commercials, TV they've all used crying babies...I wondered why their methods have been questioned?
 
I doubt I would do that to a kid to get a pic like that, but that's because I don't like to see them cry :D . I agree with Liv, I mean, there are worse situations, and we as siblings (I was the big sister from hell ), parents, "responsible" adults, do that to the kids every day, and they are capable to get over those little "dissapointments".

as fair as I know, you can't order a toodler to cry (with real tears and everything) without any reason
 
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In the LA Times article today, it was stated that at least one of the kids involved didn't even remember the incident. The kids had the sucker, they had it taken away from them for 20 seconds or so, then they were given even more suckers for their trouble.
 
I was the Big Sister From Hell. My sister and I are only 22 months apart. I once hit her in the head with a top. We survived it intact, and are very close.
 
martha said:
In the LA Times article today, it was stated that at least one of the kids involved didn't even remember the incident. The kids had the sucker, they had it taken away from them for 20 seconds or so, then they were given even more suckers for their trouble.

I skimmed the article this morning, also.


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It is hardly child abuse,
I have seen two year olds scream like that
if you won't give them more ice cream
or just say "no".

the art is interesting
the lighting, color and emotion
i won't be buying any


more examples here


the photographer may be a

monkey abuser, too. (call peta)

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Thank you for the responses. Some interesting measuring sticks used as reference for this situation.

If we compare this "trauma" to what we have experienced in life, is it still appropriate or permissible to poke the child with a pin to get the crying? Any physical act that does not scar?

What if you told a 5-year old that their mother just died (yet, they will see their mom in just a few minutes, so the "trauma" is brief)?
 
nbcrusader said:
Thank you for the responses. Some interesting measuring sticks used as reference for this situation.

If we compare this "trauma" to what we have experienced in life, is it still appropriate or permissible to poke the child with a pin to get the crying? Any physical act that does not scar?

What if you told a 5-year old that their mother just died (yet, they will see their mom in just a few minutes, so the "trauma" is brief)?

do we compare taking a lolipop away for twenty seconds

and telling a child their parent is dead?

i have seen expressions like those in the photos on all of my nieces and nephews at that age

i think most parents do


just go to a super market
where a kid is pushed down the cereal isle, they often throw fits if they don't get want they want.
 
nbcrusader said:


What if you told a 5-year old that their mother just died (yet, they will see their mom in just a few minutes, so the "trauma" is brief)?

How is this comparable to a 2 year old and a lollipop?:huh:
 
It's different because you say so? Perhaps we can go beyond just thumbs up and down on situations.

These are incriments of emotional trauma
 
nbcrusader said:
It's different because you say so? Perhaps we can go beyond just thumbs up and down on situations.

These are incriments of emotional trauma

Any child psychiatrist would tell you the same.

Most 2 year olds won't even remember an incident such as this 2 minutes later.

A 5 year old would, and they would definately remember their mother missing even if it was for 24 hours.
 
Okay, thank you for getting back to discussion.

Is it just a measure of how long someone would remember the trauma?

You didn't address the physical trauma. If young children do not remember it, is that a deciding factor?
 
I can't get the link to work, so I may be missing the bigger picture here, but one red flag that immediately comes to mind for me is the fact that the trauma (or whatever you want to call it) being inflicted here was inflicted solely for the purpose of creating and enjoying a spectacle. And perhaps the fact that we immediately respond by rationalizing "Well, big deal, it's just a lolly and she got another one" might be a problematic way of avoiding the question of whether it's generally acceptable to use trauma to create a spectacle involving children.

If my younger son (I should say "when," as he actually just did this about an hour ago) snatches something from his little sister (who then screams bloody murder) because "I had it first!" or "That's mine!" or "She's gonna break it!", well, no biggie--I just intervene then give him a brief talk about sharing, politeness, etc. I'm not particularly worried about what such interchanges say about either of them: it's common and normal for a kid his age to react reflexively, and without thought to other kids' perceptions of his behavior; it's common and normal for a kid her age to react with intense, inarticulate rage. However--if I got the impression that my son was doing this because he considered seeing his sister cry a reward all by itself, and especially if that became a pattern, then that would worry me, and then I'd feel that perhaps a little more than brief admonitions were called for.

I don't have enough insight into what goes on in my daughter's head to know whether she'd find the latter more traumatic than the former; she's too young to express such nuanced feelings, in words, yet. Perhaps at such a young age, all minor affronts seem the same regardless of intent. But there's no doubt in my mind that if I let such a dynamic continue, and a pattern developed over the years of him picking on her for what are essentially sadistic reasons, then yes, and within just a couple years at most, she would "pick up on" his enjoyment and resent it intensely, and the damage would likely be more lasting than garden-variety sibling squabbles over who gets to choose the channel, etc. I'm certain of this because I went through it myself with my next oldest brother--he was an often angry and combative kid (now an often angry and combative adult), I was smaller than he was, and too many times to count I became the convenient object of his wish to humiliate and overpower someone. It's not like he broke bones or anything, but I did resent his behavior intensely and as a result, our adult relationship got off to a shaky start; it's taken us years to get around the various mutual distrusts and resentments stemming from that. So I can understand why, in principle if nothing else, someone might find this artist's tactics problematic. I would never let my kids do this to each other--why should I let some stranger do it to them?
 
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nbcrusader said:
Okay, thank you for getting back to discussion.

Is it just a measure of how long someone would remember the trauma?

You didn't address the physical trauma. If young children do not remember it, is that a deciding factor?

Well you are abusing the word trauma. Trauma by definition is damage that IS substantial and lasting. So you don't forget trauma. So yes the fact that it's forgotten does matter.

And I'm not sure what physical "trauma" you are talking about, from the article?
 
OK, in your definition, when does it become substantial and lasting?

The article does not mention physical trauma (just go with my use of the word for now). Some of the discussion was based on factors that seemingly would allow physical trauma in addition to the emotional trauma.
 
On the topic ‘End Times’

Regarding What is Real in Photography

We have a tendency to believe what we see, because "seeing is believing." We believe a photograph captures the truth because we clearly see ourselves on paper. While deception is not a new concept to art, photography may create one of the largest betrayals yet to one of our 'absolutes': a photograph is real, and that is how it is. Native Americans do not object to having their picture taken because it captures their soul, but rather because it tricks one into seeing the soul where it does not exist.

Photography has always been a very personal medium. The connotation we cannot seem to escape is the relation to our historical memory: we’ve used the photograph to witness the present as well as remember the past. Photography was not created for the purpose of art, but rather as a tool. In this tradition, it seems we have mis-catagorized contemporary photography by believing what we see as a reality, not a vision. Ansel Adams never saw what his photographs captured: he worked countless hours, countless years, to create the scene that his mind wanted. We didn’t flinch: we bought it as reality. Art had always been a medium of vision and expression. Artists make what they see, not what is. When we walk up to a photograph only to see it is actually a painting, we are amazed! But to walk up to a painting only to realize it is a photograph? No way. To believe that photography does not capture the real is instinctively impossible.

The confusing thing about the transformation of photography into a digital realm of art is that we don’t always see the hint, the proof, that we are being tricked. Photographers have played with this new technology to create magnificently abnormal scenes. A stock market floor, confused with seamless repetition, awes us with the potential photography holds for demonstrating an artistic vision, an altered truth.


But now these photographs are of children, children in pain nonetheless. We suddenly pause with our enamored amazement in photography and switch to a feeling of trespass and harm. A crying child naturally brings up emotion for adults and stir up an instinctual reaction to protect and care for the subject, to seek out the source of their pain and destroy it. The ‘trick’ is suddenly too good: Mrs. Greenberg’s talent with her medium may have finally crossed the line of what we know and what we believe.

Anyone who has seen one of Jill Greenberg’s pieces in person has had the fleeting suspicion they were paintings. Up close, the surface is unreal: it is saturated with colors and detail. The sensation of the never-ending now, the desperation, hope, despair, and agony are intended responses of the photographs, not the technique used to capture them. Because we ‘know’ a photograph must be real, these photographs must be wrong. But these images do not come from a photograph taken in a studio. The full-fledged emotion is what was added. This is Mrs. Greenberg’s ability, style, and her talent as a photographer. Referencing her other work it is easily deduced that her photographs are not of reality, but of a fashioned hyper-reality. This filtration through the artist’s eye onto paper is by definition what makes an artist.

Mrs. Greenberg is expressing this concern through what she does for a living: photography. She wants the faces we see in this series to feel the potential future ‘present day,’ but the children photographed did not feel this or anything like it. Without understanding the process and work utilized by the artist, without seeing the template used, we cannot judge the photographer’s ethics or actions. It is unfortunate that the content of ‘End Times’ is being overlooked because Mrs. Greenberg may be too good at what she does.

‘End Times’ is being subjected to a debate taking place outside of the art community. This debate is not about the new face and reality of photography, but rather about whether people agree that the artist is a bad person. Did she harm the children she photographed --making her a child abuser or child pornographer? Is she a cruel person, like Hitler? These are the questions being posed. Not even in movies, where we see ‘truth’ unfold in front of us, do we believe it is as truth. We have trained our minds to interpret a movie as a story, which is why we try over and over again to convince our children that the little boy’s mother didn’t really die --it was acting. Why, suddenly, are we looking at an artistic medium and wholeheartedly believing what we see on the surface?

Because we care deeply, seeing an image of an American child so incredibly upset elicits a reaction. It is a good thing that people show deep concern for these children as well as others, and this is what the artist wanted from her work. Anyone who has voiced concern over the exhibition cares for his or her children. Hopefully this concern will lead to a greater good. Hopefully the attention can be focused on protecting our children so that they can grow old and lead a full life. Staying alert and educated with the conflicts in the world, taking seriously the ever-escalating power in the mid-east that is ushering on the new Holocaust for Western Civilization, seeking out those Americans who are actively welcoming the war to pave the way for the fulfillment of their vision of the apocalypse. These are the things that may help the future remain as fortunate as we are in the present day.
 
nbcrusader said:
OK, in your definition, when does it become substantial and lasting?

It's not my definition it's the Webster's and clinical definition. It becomes substantial and lasting when it creates lasting damage. But what we know of a 2 year olds mental capacity, this is not trauma.


nbcrusader said:

The article does not mention physical trauma (just go with my use of the word for now). Some of the discussion was based on factors that seemingly would allow physical trauma in addition to the emotional trauma.

I would never support physical pain in order to create this scanario regardless if it didn't create trauma.
 
To the first part, when does damage become lasting? Do you know it when it is inflicted? Or is it only measurable after the fact?

To the second part, why? Is emotional trauma always lesser than physical trauma?
 
nbcrusader said:
To the first part, when does damage become lasting? Do you know it when it is inflicted? Or is it only measurable after the fact?

To the second part, why? Is emotional trauma always lesser than physical trauma?

To the first part. No one has all the answers on child rearing. If they did they could probably save the world. We have models and guidelines, and we have psychology experts that can help us. These things tell us that a lollipop will not create trauma. We do have these things to also tell us what things will create trauma.

To the second part, I'm not saying it's less, I'm just saying personally I can't condone it. I'm still torn on the issue of spanking as an effective way of dicipline.
 
I'm with nbc (I think this is his position? lol). I dont like the very intentional manipulation of a child's emotions. When you are a toddler your whole world is your parents, your food, your toys. Something about this really doesn't sit well with me.
 
Angela, you described my reaction perfectly. It would be easy to dismiss this story as just a small thing with very young children. But it is the intentional manipulation, the intentional infliction of distress that bugs me.
 
that's why I wouldn't let it happen to my own kids if I had them

but there doesn't seem to be much here that I would hold against other people if they would let their kids go through this
 
Emotional trauma can be worse than physical trauma. Physical trauma has a set time in which the wound will heal. It's more precise. Emotional trauma is more of a grey area, it's impossible to predict how long the emotional trauma from an upsetting experience is going to last.
In the case of the child and the candy, the child is hurt. They wouldn't cry if it didn't hurt. It's not right to inflict pain just to get an image. True,. the pain subsided when the lollipop was returned, but meanwhile there was pain.
 
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I understood that peoples' earliest memories typically of from the age of 3-4 so it's highly unlikely that these toddlers aged 2 would remember this experience. I asked my own children aged 7 and 10 and two of their friends the same age what was their earliest memory and they were all very hazy of any event prior to the age of 3. Any parent knows that many toddlers will fly into short-lived apoplectic rages over the slightest thing that provokes or upsets them -it's all part of their developmental process.
That said I do find the fact that adults intentionally caused distress to a child however briefly, just in the name of art, rather disturbing. I also would question the motives of such parents who sign their children up at such a young age to modelling agencies.
 
nbcrusader said:
Angela, you described my reaction perfectly. It would be easy to dismiss this story as just a small thing with very young children. But it is the intentional manipulation, the intentional infliction of distress that bugs me.

This, I believe is the underlying issue.

If my child had a lollipop and I didn't want him/her to have it, I would take it away. He/she might cry, but that doesn't mean I'm abusive. It may mean I'm a good parent, in that I don't give him/her everything he or she wants (also known as spoiling).

So obviously, taking a lollipop away doesn't qualify as abuse.

However, the motives, the manipulation, and the intentional causing of distress that is the real issue. The question is: Is this action appropriate given the context?

Personally I'm not real comfortable with what the photographer did.
 
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