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martha said:
What does this have to do with anything?
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle....
a little respect for what people hold dear is respectable.
martha said:
What does this have to do with anything?
BorderGirl said:
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle....
a little respect for what people hold dear is respectable.
yolland said:
Anyways, I'm not trying to assign a Definitive Interpretation to the Exodus passage or anything; I'm certainly not qualified to do that, and as I've said before, obviously it's not for me to tell a Christian what kind of interpretation of whatever "OT" passage his or her personal understanding and experience of God ought to yield. Just wanted to clarify some aspects of the traditional Jewish view on that passage.
martha said:
Someone had to step up to the plate and call you on it. Someday you'll take full responsibility for your 16th century views.
No, I grew up in rural Mississippi where there certainly weren't options like that, and in college I focused on what I teach now which is South Asian politics. But I had a traditional Orthodox upbringing, which means I've been studying the (Jewish) Bible and, later, the Talmud and other major writings in Hebrew since I was 5 years old, primarily with my father which is, in fact, the traditional way to study. Obviously I don't know as much as a rabbi or a Hebrew scholar or anything like that. Today I belong to the Conservative denomination, I won't go into how that's different though because it's irrelevant here and besides that much is easy to look up.80sU2isBest said:Did you study this in school?
martha said:
Someone had to step up to the plate and call you on it. Someday you'll take full responsibility for your 16th century views.
BonoVoxSupastar said:This is getting out of hand.
BonoVoxSupastar said:The "I am right", the personal attacks, bringing the "when you meet your maker", claiming sole interpretation of the Bible...it's all out of hand.
And yes I have taken part in that as well, and I apologize.
Justin24 said:
and that cannot be avoided.
martha said:
Lots of men think this is a legitimate solution to a disobedient woman. You'll have plenty of company in that jail.
yolland said:
No, I grew up in rural Mississippi where there certainly weren't options like that, and in college I focused on what I teach now which is South Asian politics. But I had a traditional Orthodox upbringing, which means I've been studying the (Jewish) Bible and, later, the Talmud and other major writings in Hebrew since I was 5 years old, primarily with my father which is, in fact, the traditional way to study. Obviously I don't know as much as a rabbi or a Hebrew scholar or anything like that. Today I belong to the Conservative denomination, I won't go into how that's different though because it's irrelevant here and besides that much is easy to look up.
CTU2fan said:
Are you being deliberately obtuse, or do you really, truly, think that that's the basis for every pro-life man's stance? Because it's sure nothing to do with mine, I don't expect women to be "obedient", but thanks for the assumption.
anitram said:
I think she was commenting on your statement that you'd likely kidnap a woman who wanted to abort your progeny.
Which by the way I found so disturbing I didn't even want to comment on it.
BorderGirl said:Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle....
a little respect for what people hold dear is respectable.
anitram said:
I think she was commenting on your statement that you'd likely kidnap a woman who wanted to abort your progeny.
Which by the way I found so disturbing I didn't even want to comment on it.
No.Justin24 said:Don't you think men should have a choice also?
Justin24 said:Since the were also part of the creation of that child? If she does not want it and he does, why does she not give it to him?
CTU2fan said:If your spouse/significant other/whatever was going to kill your child, is there anything you wouldn't do to stop them?
martha said:
yolland said:I can understand the frustrations experienced by some of the pro-choice people in this thread. Too often discussions on abortion, whether online or "real"-world, are dominated by men even if women are nominally present, and that can be very alienating to women--particuarly when the entire thrust of the rhetoric is baby, baby, baby, as if the person it inhabits and lives off of were an inanimate husk or machine with no moral autonomy or right to control one's destiny of her own,
yolland said:and it's a bit too easy to overlook or dismiss the possible range of physical, psychological, social and economic consequences of forcing her to carry a child against her will.,
If God was able to be that certain then God would not exist.Justin24 said:
When it's your time to meet the maker, who I am sure is 100000000000000000000000000000% against abortion I hope you wont be as rude as you are now to him/her/it. What will your excuse be to him/her/it?
A_Wanderer said:People should take their moral opposition and live by it; but to pursue criminalisation would make a thoroughly illiberal nation.
Well, I'm not personally down with the "tissue blob" kind of talk, and find it not very credible as a reflection of how pregnant women actually experience that condition. And at least in my *personal* experience, most pro-choice people who talk that way in fact *tend to be* men themselves. Certainly none of the women I've known who had an abortion used that kind of rhetoric. The enormity of being pregnant and of contemplating an abortion is immediate and palpable for most women, and I think that, too, may be something it's difficult for many men to grasp. Most women at the very least strongly suspect they're pregnant long before any test is taken--the physical signs, water retention and heaviness, breast swelling, easy exhaustion, inexplicable moodiness, nausea and so on begin very early, and announce loud and clear that this is indeed a Big Thing. It isn't like discovering to your surprise that you've got a new mole on your back or something. As for the developmental timelines and all that, everyone's already studied that stuff in school anyhow and it doesn't show them anything they don't already know; it's really a question of what the viewer perceives them to show. Of course a fetus is a life form, of course it's Homo sapiens; that could hardly be otherwise, and yes it is within the 'magisterium' of science to quantify things like that. But concepts like personhood are not akin to numbers or genome maps; they represent things much vaster and much more abstract than that and entail all kinds of moral, legal and philosophical assumptions that are not within the purview of science. Think of something as basic as the difficulties in accurately capturing the sense of the Hebrew words translated as 'child' I mentioned earlier--yeah, there's enough common ground there that one can deduce easily enough what general kind of thing is being referred to, but there's such a difference in the conceptual grounding for the words; one set is vested in notions of begetting and ensuring personal legacy and the social status that accrues to the parent because of it, while the other entails notions of discrete individual persons in whom inhere inalienable rights before the law, and that is a very Western, post-Enlightenment, social-contract-theory driven way to think. (And even that, of course, is a very recent take on the word; 'child' and 'woman' both have long pedigees in English as terms, but until quite recently neither category of being was seen as anything more than the property of a man where 'rights' before the law were concerned.) No matter how much any of us might wish it were otherwise, the fact is it isn't a cut-and-dried matter to resolve what these concepts absolutely and irreducibly stand for, the way it is with calculating pi or the molecular mass of isotopes. Their meanings and legal implications have to be arrived at through building moral and philosophical consensus, and that's not something that can be achieved by scientific method.80sU2isBest said:Frankly, this is how prolifers feel when prochoicers treat the fetus as if it's just a "tissue blob" or "growth" with no rights of its own.
Frankly, we prolifers see prochoicers overlooking or ignoring things, such as fetal development timelines and photos that clearly demonstrate that a human being is growing inside the woman.
Morality and reason can end with the same results; I don't want murder to be punished because it feels morally wrong, I want it to be punished because it deprives another individual of their liberties and inflicts harm. If I strongly believed a foetus to be an individual human being then I would argue just as strongly against abortion but as it stands a foetus is more like a brain dead body than a sentient human being.80sU2isBest said:
A, you know and I know that most of our laws are based on moral judgments somewhere down the line.
No one's going to think that, and most everyone in the thread is likely feeling some amount of the same thing. It's so hard to come to terms with the reality that people just do approach and perceive this issue incredibly differently, and that the reasons for that are way more complex and intractable than anyone's 'stupidity' or 'blindness' or whatever word seems to fit the emotional shoe at the time. But you do have to come terms with it nonetheless, and part of that is recognizing that it's unreasonable to make whoever you're debating with at the moment bear the full brunt of your frustrations with things society in general is deeply divided over, for very complicated reasons. It sounds like you understand that very well.CTU2fan said:I should have just avoided this thread. I find myself vehemently disagreeing with good posters who I agree with 90% of the time, and honestly it makes me uncomfortable. Now I went & posted that & 3/4 of this place will think I'm an idiot, or worse.