The Roman society in biblical times was much like how our society is becoming today. They were focused on women's liberation, surely Paul felt they took it to extremes. What I've always wondered about Paul is how much of a prophet was he - if there are degrees. I would wonder this - if God knew what Paul was going to preach - and if it was wrong - why would he make Paul a prophet? He is one of history's most respected preachers of all time. Translating scripture from Greek may have its share of puzzling, considering there are supposedly seven separate kinds of love in the Greek language, for example. I also genuinely wonder this - if God created marriage, why do you think it should've been done any differently? When the Bible was written, it occasionally focused on gender differences. For example, it is not good for a man to be alone, as found in Genesis. According to that chapter, God created a partner suitable for him.
Ephesians - Chapter 5:25-33
25. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
26. to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word,
27. and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.
28. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
29. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church-
30. for we are members of his body.
31. “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”
32. This is a profound mystery-but I am talking about Christ and the church.
33. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself...
Personally, I think that if the Bible was written in modern times, it would condemn things like drug use, pornography, and probably some things that we think are fine and dandy. The pope is doing what he feels is right, and upholding what he believes is true. Quite a few of you may beg to differ, which is fine. We're all entitled to a stance, but let's try to keep it respectful.