last night my bank's ATM card security person called me and questioned me about some 'suspicious activity' on my card they thought was fraud. Apparently, buying a new computer, spending a night in a motel in the mountains and eating out two days in a row was so out of pattern for me it sent up a red flag that made them think surely someone else had ripped off my card and gone on a spree. So if having fun and buying neat stuff is out of character for me, I have a dull life