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Old 01-04-2006, 11:52 AM   #1
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Its Official My Marriage Is Over

Out of the blue Thursday night my husband asked me to leave!! He is having some sort of whatever....He always was the my way or the highway type....so I am at my sisters still in Ft. Worth adjusting to the upheavel in my life and really listening to U2 for strength...I will not be going back as I cannot trust anyone who would throw me out! All prayers and advice welcome Susan
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Susan, you're in my prayers. Marriage is tough. My wife and I have had our big issues. How long have you been married? Keep praying.

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My prayers are with you - been there done that...it is hard at first then the sun comes out
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Yikes. I'm sorry! That's horrible.
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If his whatever what I think it is, then you should be happy to unload that baggage.
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Poor you Susan.....but he is probably doing you a favor as difficult as it might be to hear that. I hope you find the strength to get through it, I've been there.....and survived. If I did, anyone can! Don't hesitate to call on any of us for support!

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except marriage guidance hotline,,,,their minute fees are extortionate to say the least!!
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I am doing good....spent a couple of hours with my Priest as well as our Counselor there....they are of the opinion that he has been verbally and emotionally abusive....I guess I just didn't want to see it!!!! Evedryday is easier....I am just a strong Irish Lass I was determined to stick out my marriage...but alas he juist was cruel and mean and told me to get the f----- hell out with my Shelties! Before I would just sort of let it go but for some reason....I just don't want to live being treated that way....I am 48, with a degree and can take care of myself...he does investments and basically has lost alll of our money. I am praying, listening to U2 and just going one day at a time....I love you all....he is not willing to go to counseling so that is my answer right there...His whatever, is "things go my way or you hit the highway". I was not allowed access to financial records and given the debit card when I went shopping and had to return the card and the receipt...Susan
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I am doing good....spent a couple of hours with my Priest as well as our Counselor there....they are of the opinion that he has been verbally and emotionally abusive....I guess I just didn't want to see it!!!! Evedryday is easier....I am just a strong Irish Lass I was determined to stick out my marriage...but alas he juist was cruel and mean and told me to get the f----- hell out with my Shelties! Before I would just sort of let it go but for some reason....I just don't want to live being treated that way....I am 48, with a degree and can take care of myself...he does investments and basically has lost alll of our money. I am praying, listening to U2 and just going one day at a time....I love you all....he is not willing to go to counseling so that is my answer right there...His whatever, is "things go my way or you hit the highway". I was not allowed access to financial records and given the debit card when I went shopping and had to return the card and the receipt...Susan
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Glad to hear from you Susan. Stay strong. It sounds like you are doing all the right things and it will take time, but one foot in front of the other, one day at a time....and you will be ok. It is also good to hear that you are talking about your feelings and what has happened with supporters such as a priest and counselor. Make sure you eat right and get plenty of sleep and exercise. And thanks for checking back in here.
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All the best to you. Keep listening to U2, take care of yourself and keep you head high. Anyone who does such a thing is not worth not getting over.
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