Em,
You can't speak for every single freakin' guy on the planet. And, I for one, have a friend who played with the boys in LA... I felt nothing but happiness for her. You say you're not jealous of girls being pulled up to play guitar, but yet you posted about how they shouldn't because it's a guy thing? Wha???
Truly, Bono chooses who he wants to pull up with him. He loves to interact with the audience, going so far as kissing girls while crawling around on the catwalk, taking cell phones and singing into them, holding hands, playing with the flame of someone's lighter. If he wants to pull up a girl to play guitar with him, then he will. If he wants to pull up a guy to play guitar, then he'll do that, too. Who freakin' cares who he pulls up? It's Bono wanting to give a person a chance to live a dream. What's so wrong with that?
You said that you would prefer it if Bono didn't pull anybody up at all - well, that would be pretty boring. I personally would rather watch someone be pulled out of the audience to play with the band than watch Bono dance with a girl. The reason? Bono comes up to my freakin' belly button, so there ain't no way in hell he'd pick me to dance. It would be like Diamond Bruno carrying Bono around the stage - I'm pretty tall. So, I think if I knew how to play guitar well enough, that would be something I'd opt to try and do. And now you think that I shouldn't try because only guys should go up and play guitar and girls should go up and dance? Then, why shouldn't Bono ask a guy to go up and dance with him? Pretty stupid suggestion, I know, but it's about as redundant as your thought is on how girls shouldn't be picked to play guitar.
Moonie
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If you ask me, I think it's all about drums.
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Tonight the moon has drawn its curtains
It's a private show no one else going to know
I'm wanting
(If You Wear That Velvet Dress)
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