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I have an annoying neighbour!!!!! HELP!!!
Ok, here's the deal. I live in an apartment and I recently got befriended by a neighbour of mine who lives down the hall. We get along and he's really nice, but he seems to think that he can just come over whenever to use my computer and check his email. It all started in the summer when I had him take care of my fish when I went to Slane. In return for him helping out I let him use my computer. Now he thinks the offer still exists. No it doesn't!! Thing is, he doesn't just check his email he sits there and writes bloody novels!! And when he can clearly see I am in the middle of something. I have had to be rude to a friend I was chatting to because he came by and said he'd be 'really quick'. 1/2hr later! Grrr.
The U2 content is this- when I get home from work and actually have the opportunity to be at home a whole evening (which isn't that often) I want my privacy and my ability to chat with friends, download U2 music and just beeeee. It is becoming such a problem because he is knocking on my door every day now! He just offered to help pay for my internet connection and I am like no way! I don't want him to feel like he has the right to use my computer whenever he wants. I feel like he is totally taking advantage of my good will. What can I do? He is a really sensitive person and I don't want to hurt his feelings or be mean, but he has to know that it's not ok to just come over anytime and sit in my room on MY computer. That's what I like to do. That's my right! It's my aprt. I am really frustrated here. I don't know what to do. I was going to ignore the door the next time he knocked, but he just knocked and I just answered! I feel too guilty otherwise. I did turn him away and told him that I was in the middle of burning CD's, but he just doesn't get it. That's when he offered me $$$ and stuff. I dont want money! I just want my privacy!!!!
Ahhh, I am a hopeless case. Sorry for all the posts today.
I have an annoying neighbour!!!!! HELP!!!
Ok, here's the deal. I live in an apartment and I recently got befriended by a neighbour of mine who lives down the hall. We get along and he's really nice, but he seems to think that he can just come over whenever to use my computer and check his email. It all started in the summer when I had him take care of my fish when I went to Slane. In return for him helping out I let him use my computer. Now he thinks the offer still exists. No it doesn't!! Thing is, he doesn't just check his email he sits there and writes bloody novels!! And when he can clearly see I am in the middle of something. I have had to be rude to a friend I was chatting to because he came by and said he'd be 'really quick'. 1/2hr later! Grrr.
The U2 content is this- when I get home from work and actually have the opportunity to be at home a whole evening (which isn't that often) I want my privacy and my ability to chat with friends, download U2 music and just beeeee. It is becoming such a problem because he is knocking on my door every day now! He just offered to help pay for my internet connection and I am like no way! I don't want him to feel like he has the right to use my computer whenever he wants. I feel like he is totally taking advantage of my good will. What can I do? He is a really sensitive person and I don't want to hurt his feelings or be mean, but he has to know that it's not ok to just come over anytime and sit in my room on MY computer. That's what I like to do. That's my right! It's my aprt. I am really frustrated here. I don't know what to do. I was going to ignore the door the next time he knocked, but he just knocked and I just answered! I feel too guilty otherwise. I did turn him away and told him that I was in the middle of burning CD's, but he just doesn't get it. That's when he offered me $$$ and stuff. I dont want money! I just want my privacy!!!!
Ahhh, I am a hopeless case. Sorry for all the posts today.