Hello,
I'm Not Your Baby can be found on the soundtrack of The End Of Violence. It is a film by Wim Wenders (where have I seen this name before?
). Go out and buy the soundtrack as it has lots of great songs on it (Ry Cooder, Tom Waits, Michael Stipe, Roy Orbison, Ryan Adams).
Oh, and IMO that song (I'm Not Your Baby) is maybe the best song U2 released in 1997. And I'm someone who does like Pop!
And to answer your question about time and place; according to the liner notes it was recorded at the Hit Factory, New York. Judging from those liner notes (producers, mixers) it was recorded during or short after the Pop sessions (1996/1997) as Howie B and Flood produced it.
C ya!
Marty
P.S. The movie was strange but nice (kinda like all Wim Wenders' movies)
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People criticize me but I know it's not the end
I try to kick the truth, not just to make friends
Spearhead - People In Tha Middle