I prefer the van video as well because of the very subtle theme of the whole thing. In addition to DreamOutLoud13's assessment I'd like to add that for me the whole thing is very symbolic of the point of view of a suicidal person. They feel they are alone regardless of the fact that they may have friends and family that are actually trying to help them. The band repeatedly tries to reach Bono throughout the video with no success. Even when Edge is right there and reaches his hand down to Bono's the picture resets just as his hand closes around Bono's and they are back to square one. But in the very last scene Edge holds out his hand but Bono is the one who actually reaches up to grasp it and the connection is finally made. To me this is representative of the fact that even when there are people ready and willing to help they can only do so if the person really wants to be helped.