I'm also curious as to why so many fans on this site hate All That You Can't Leave Behind. It's all down to personal taste, one would think, but I suspect there is a certain demographic represented, and political position taken, by people who profess to hate it... but I could be wrong.
To answer the question of this topic, I would choose the two studio albums over the tours. I think they are both great, great records. I prefer HTDAAB because it rocks and the production is much more to my taste (high guitars, raw and clear), but I appreciate ATYCLB as a highly successful attempt at succint songwriting with a soulful flavour. I do think ATYCLB suffers a little bit from a certain attempt on U2's part to produce a classic sound (esp. 'Walk On' -- an otherwise admirable song which isn't aging well partly because it sounds like an Unforgettable Fire recording!), but the band is so talented and the songs so strong that it simply overrides any serious criticism.
I do like the recent tours, but since I wasn't at either of them I can't definitively state my experience. Based on the videos and bootlegs, they were great, but I did find some of the Bono-theatrics a bit much (longer-winded than usual speeches; the ridiculously dorky-looking bandana at Vertigo gigs). As far as playing their recent songs, I think U2 live are every bit as good as they've ever been. But as for the older songs, I simply don't enjoy them as much nowadays as when they played them fresh in the 80s. I think tunes like 'New Year's Day' and 'Pride' could be permanently cut from the setlist and I would never miss them.
I really can't say that I dislike any U2 album or period. They all have a lot to offer. Sometimes critical fans seem to forget that, whether or not you like, say, Zooropa or not, it is still U2 doing it. That is, if you loved them two years ago and say you hate them now -- how does that make sense? Certainly we can each appreciate certain records more than others, but stating that you "hate" ATYCLB but you love Pop or HTDAAB just seems absurd (to me).