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Old 03-18-2005, 08:39 AM   #1
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Women flirting with guys (A question)...

Since I don't belong to any other forums, I'll ask here!

I've been noticing something lately. When I'm out on a casual date, other women (strangers) seem much more flirty. I'm not talking about any hardcore "hitting on", just very friendly little "Hi's" or very small chit-chat, especially when my date gets up to use the restroom or whatever. When I'm out with one or two of my guy buddies it seems like the complete opposite!?


Why is that?

Any other guys noticed something like this?

Ladies, do you think this is true???
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Old 03-18-2005, 08:45 AM   #2
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Some girls like the chase and want what they can't have or enjoy the drama. I for one (when I didn't have a boyfriend) didn't hit on guys that were already with someone.. so it's really hard to say
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I think it's because women don't want to give you the wrong impression and thus will be more reserved if they think you are without a girlfriend or wife.

I've noticed this phenomena since I've been engaged, women are more likely to talk kindly to me because they don't have to fear that I will take it as a sign that they want something more.
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I think it is...

My friend went on a date with this guy at a restaurant and the waitress was falling all over him. I'm sure if he was walking by himself he wouldn't be noticed.

But maybe that's not the same??
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My friend went on a date with this guy at a restaurant and the waitress was falling all over him. I'm sure if he was walking by himself he wouldn't be noticed.
That's EXACTLY the kind of thing I'm talking about! Also other women near me or just passing by saying little things out of the blue. This NEVER (or rarely at best) happens when I'm with a guy friend...
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Ummm ... ladies, check out his pic in the picture thread. There is a reason he is being hit on.
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hehe I agree
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beatlesboy, did you used to post here under another name? You look very familiar.


I agree with Jessica Ann and lauren, too.
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the fault, dear brutus

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I think it's because women don't want to give you the wrong impression and thus will be more reserved if they think you are without a girlfriend or wife.

I've noticed this phenomena since I've been engaged, women are more likely to talk kindly to me because they don't have to fear that I will take it as a sign that they want something more.
Exactly. It's fun to flirt, and if it's safe, it's even more fun.

Which is why I flirt all the time here.
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beatlesboy, did you used to post here under another name? You look very familiar.


I agree with Jessica Ann and lauren, too.
You guys are the absolute sweetest things (no pun intended!) Yes, I was originally on here pre-elevation tour and then I wasn't on for a loooong time.

I have no idea what my previous info was though (username, password, etc...)

Anywho... My question still stands, do women purposely go out of their way to flirt with guys when they're with a girl??
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Ummm ... ladies, check out his pic in the picture thread. There is a reason he is being hit on.








Perhaps you don't get hit on while you're out with your guy friends is because that is a potentially intimidating situation. Really never thought of it....I've never tried to outright flirt with a guy that has a woman with him.
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You guys are the absolute sweetest things (no pun intended!)





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Anywho... My question still stands, do women purposely go out of their way to flirt with guys when they're with a girl??
Speaking for myself, I do not. However, I've seen many, many, many instances where this is the case.
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I don't talk to guys if they are with a girl, unless she looks like a sister. I figure there's no chance.

Of course I don't talk to them when they are alone, either.
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