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Old 05-22-2002, 11:34 AM   #1
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why do "MOST" girls/women

why do "MOST" girls/women like bastard guy
compared to a goody-goody guy ?

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Old 05-22-2002, 11:38 AM   #2
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ahh! you've hit it right on the head man!

There's this girl I absoultely adore. Itell her this and she says she isn't ready right now that past relationships have scarred her.

I look into her past and I can tell you the guys she has gone out with are ALL assholes and losers!! Than I come along and its a shutdown...and I like to think of myself as a nice guy.

So girls like to go out with guys who will hurt them and be just friends with the ones, like me, who would make them the center of their lives and give them the attention they deserve.

its frustraing
VERY much so

hopefully she'll come around...buts its discouraging for me

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Old 05-22-2002, 11:39 AM   #3
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Old 05-22-2002, 11:42 AM   #4
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I don't think you can ever say "MOST" of anyone does any certain thing.

I am involved with a "goody goody" guy.
And I am not a "goody goody" girl.

Some girls, not MOST, enjoy a guy who is aggressive because the girls likely have a low self-esteem, and therefore believe they don't deserve respect or genuine love.

Some girls like an aggressive guy because they want a strong personality, or what they perceive as a "real man." What some girls fail to realize is that the real "real men" are wrapped in the "goody goody" packaging.

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In some instances, when you have a past that consists of being mistreated/betrayed/hurt by men, you have poor self esteem and don't believe you deserve a man who will treat you properly.

And when one does treat you properly, maybe you don't know how to react, or don't trust it.
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that sounds like a carbon copy of my situation.

the night it all came out she just kept asking me over and over again. "why, why why; why me?" she actually said to me "I don't understand how someone like you can like someone like me"!! That really frustrated me cos she's SOOO amazing and funny and beautiful and everything. If anything I don't deserve her.

Its all complicated. Life gets more and more complicated as you go. oi

I remember that night
I was a wreck; she kissed my hand, said she was sorry, and then got out of the car leaving me there in the dark. And now she's living far away from me...for a while anyway. Coing back in november...
heres to stupid hope!



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i would objectively say that *most* girls of my age, 20-25, conduct themselves in a similar fashion. it's sad really. i've seen a lot of my friends end up with real assholes. feelings hurt, diseases passed...
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In some instances, when you have a past that consists of being mistreated/betrayed/hurt by men, you have poor self esteem and don't believe you deserve a man who will treat you properly.

And when one does treat you properly, maybe you don't know how to react, or don't trust it.
There's a feeling of pain and before they've had time to regain happiness/Confidence with themselves, they reach out for something and/or someone else to bring them that happiness. Possibly, not realizing that the guy she goes out with might be a jerk off.

Hang in their Basstrap. Sounds like she's trying to straighten out her emotions.

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It is a great mystery in a conundrum wrapped in a riddle.

I can say that I am not like that and am in the 20-25 age range that Kobi references.

edited becuase I spelled conundrum with a K.
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Maybe we should reconstruct the question to be, "Why do really really hot girls always go for the aggressive personalities?" That's usually the way it works out. The really attractive girl is matched up with a bastard who is typically a loser/bastard jerk.

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am in the 20-25 age range that Kobi references.

edited becuase I spelled conundrum with a K.
most girls i know in the 20-25 age group spell connundrum with a K
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Well, I don't see what 'attractiveness' has to do with it-and that's all in the eye of the beholder anyway.
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Please tell me where to find these "good" guys. I've been looking for quite a while...and all I can find are the dickheads.



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Old 05-22-2002, 01:10 PM   #14
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why do "MOST" girls/women like bastard guy
Probably because MOST men are bastards.

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Old 05-22-2002, 01:12 PM   #15
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Probably because MOST men are bastards.

MOST men aren't bastards.
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