She Is Raging
Refugee
Jess!
I'm sorry I havent even mentioned a thing to you about your separation... the forum is so hard to keep up with these days. I'm glad to see that things are positive though and ending on happy note - I hope that you and Steve will both be happier persons now.
As per my experience... I regret that I ever rented and didnt just stay home and save!! Mainly because Bill and I just bought a house a few months ago and it was so hard coming up with the down payment. When I think about the money I spent on my old apartment (which I did love) over the two years I lived there... that was close to 25,000 dollars that I could have saved. AT least with a mortgage you're investing and have something to show for your hard earned cash! So I would suggest either buying now... or else renting somewhere for the meantime where you'll be able to stash a good amount of cash away. Either way... good luck!!
I'm sorry I havent even mentioned a thing to you about your separation... the forum is so hard to keep up with these days. I'm glad to see that things are positive though and ending on happy note - I hope that you and Steve will both be happier persons now.
As per my experience... I regret that I ever rented and didnt just stay home and save!! Mainly because Bill and I just bought a house a few months ago and it was so hard coming up with the down payment. When I think about the money I spent on my old apartment (which I did love) over the two years I lived there... that was close to 25,000 dollars that I could have saved. AT least with a mortgage you're investing and have something to show for your hard earned cash! So I would suggest either buying now... or else renting somewhere for the meantime where you'll be able to stash a good amount of cash away. Either way... good luck!!