Torquay Superthread

[Screwtape2]

great! good luck

If a guy came up to you in class (an attractive guy) and said "I couldn't help notice you from afar my name is..." How would you react?

 

[Varitek]

haha the thread title of cream your pants got changed. no shit.

 

[Varitek]

If a guy came up to you in class (an attractive guy) and said "I couldn't help notice you from afar my name is..." How would you react?

don't tell her you noticed her. ask her if she caught something you missed in the lecture, or if she caught the reading assignment, or something else as an excuse. then introduce yourself and see how she reacts. if it goes well, ask her if she wants to get coffee.

 

[Screwtape2]

don't tell her you noticed her. ask her if she caught something you missed in the lecture, or if she caught the reading assignment, or something else as an excuse. then introduce yourself and see how she reacts. if it goes well, ask her if she wants to get coffee.

Can I mention when leaving that I think she is really pretty?

 

[Varitek]

hey maybe in a few hours i'll finally be able to start the thread i've had queued for days

 

[Varitek]

Can I mention when leaving that I think she is really pretty?

no that is creepy and too forward. at the beginning, flirting is not about direct comments, just showing interest via normal conversation. don't tell her she looks pretty until you've already had coffee,and asked her on a second date, and you're picking her up or meeting her for that. then you can tell her she looks really nice.

 

[redhotswami]

If a guy came up to you in class (an attractive guy) and said "I couldn't help notice you from afar my name is..." How would you react?

i...would be kinda weirded out. especially with how often stalking happens in college. i'd leave that out. i agree with varitek.

 

[redhotswami]

thank.you.yolland.

 

[Screwtape2]

no that is creepy and too forward. at the beginning, flirting is not about direct comments, just showing interest via normal conversation. don't tell her she looks pretty until you've already had coffee,and asked her on a second date, and you're picking her up or meeting her for that. then you can tell her she looks really nice.

I know nothing of dating.

 

[redhotswami]

what location, varitek?

 

[Screwtape2]

i...would be kinda weirded out. especially with how often stalking happens in college. i'd leave that out. i agree with varitek.

So we are choosing a poet and poem to talk about. During or after class can I be like "I love so and so. I didn't know other people my age were into them too. I'm Justin."

 

[redhotswami]

i think asking her a question might be better. it invites her to talk.

 

[Screwtape2]

i think asking her a question might be better. it invites her to talk.

"Are you big fan of so and so?"

 

[redhotswami]

well...i'd agree with what varitek said, and ask about an assignment or something in the lecture.

 

[Canadiens1131]

Yeah, you have to establish a kind of friendly student rapport before you can even think about slipping in a proposal to go grab coffee and "talk about class".

 

[Varitek]

what location, varitek?

bill wyoming population 11

 

[redhotswami]

haha 11? wow.
if i ever get to make the thread it will be Happyland, Oklahoma or Bumpass, Virginia

 

[phillyfan26]

Afternoon, Torquans.

 

[redhotswami]

sup pfan

 

[Screwtape2]

I have a few more questions. Do you guys think it is possible to be attracted to a person through their writing or art? How would you feel if someone was writing about you?

 

[redhotswami]

again, without initial contact that seems very borderline stalkerish and creepy. i'm not saying you're a stalker, i'm just saying it is probably not something i'd respond to positively.

 

[Screwtape2]

again, without initial contact that seems very borderline stalkerish and creepy. i'm not saying you're a stalker, i'm just saying it is probably not something i'd respond to positively.

I mean after contact and they know you have interest in them?

 

[Varitek]

I have a few more questions. Do you guys think it is possible to be attracted to a person through their writing or art? How would you feel if someone was writing about you?

It would have to be after you'd been dating for a while, otherwise it would be creepy.

 

[redhotswami]

^ TRUTH

 

[Screwtape2]

It would have to be after you'd been dating for a while, otherwise it would be creepy.

What if it is a way to show them how you feel? Don't they deserve to know that?

 

[redhotswami]

What if it is a way to show them how you feel? Don't they deserve to know that?

don't you think it is a bit overwhelming to just go right up to someone you hardly know with poems you've written about them?

 

[Canadiens1131]

What if it is a way to show them how you feel? Don't they deserve to know that?

This is not high school, nor it is Anne of Green Gables.









Don't do it, man. :nono:

 

[Screwtape2]

don't you think it is a bit overwhelming to just go right up to someone you hardly know with poems you've written about them?

I think you should be honored by. As a woman being the admiration of a poet is quite a compliment at least I think it is. I would tell them how I feel first. They would eventually deserve to see how much someone cares about them. No one should wonder if they are loved. I say this all in hypotheticals of course.

 

[Screwtape2]

This is not high school, nor it is Anne of Green Gables.









Don't do it, man. :nono:

I'm speaking in hypotheticals. I haven't written anything about this girl. But I feel people deserve to know that they are loved.

 

[redhotswami]

I think you should be honored by. As a woman being the admiration of a poet is quite a compliment at least I think it is. I would tell them how I feel first. They would eventually deserve to see how much someone cares about them. No one should wonder if they are loved. I say this all in hypotheticals of course.

Well I can tell you if someone did that to me I would not feel loved I'd feel stalked. How can you love somebody without even knowing them? To me that seems more fantasy than love.