Muggsy said:
Maybe the kid is affraid to come out... I would be .
Irvine511 said:
well, obviously i don't know, but it has been a rumor for years and years and years, and sadly, most of the rumor has been founded upon stereotypes.
but, my undestanding, is that he is gay, but deeply closeted, and that he was initially attracted to Scientology to help "cure" him of it -- let's not forget, he was originally going to be a priest.
he also gets accused, very frequently, of having affairs with various gay porn stars, and then turns around and slaps them with $100m lawsuits, which is understandable, since if he were to be outed it might to much to lessen his credibility in a heterosexual romantic comedy or as an action star (silly as that is).
i have also heard rumors, adn these are to be noted as rumors, but that he has assistants who will troll through clubs and bars looking for guys who would look good to Tom, and then getting them to come back to his house or hotel for sex. also, and this is a friend of a friend, but had heard that one of the reasons that his first wife, Mimi Rogers, left him was because she was "tired of all the lies" or something to that effect -- that he was a rather typical guy on "the down-low" who lived a double life.
none of this is at all out-of-the ordinary for a weathy man who must maintain an appearance of heterosexuality while being secretly homosexual.
more Rumors:
his children are adopted (though the rumor was that Nicole didn't want to be pregnant, but the fact remains that he didn't sire them)
he was very uncomfortable with the graphic sex scenes in "Eyes Wide Shut."
i think "Eyes Wide Shut" is a fascinating movie, and there's more than one example of Cruise's character being hinted at as gay, he gets hit on by the hotel clerk, a group of drunk guys pushes him and calls him faggot -- yes, this is art, but the filming of the movie was so long, such an ordeal, and he and Nicole supposedly bonded to such an extent with Kubrick, that it seems to me as if the movie is actually about "Tom and Nicole" -- but that's all theory
finally, he seems so incredibly uncomfortable talking about his "love" for any of his women, especially Katie -- they both fall back on meaningless cliches, as if they're writing a late-80s power ballad by Firehouse ("i've finally found the love of a lifetime / a love to last my whole life through").
so do we know know that he's gay?
no. and, ultimately, you have to take people at their word.
do i personally suspect he's gay?
yes.
oh, and my favorite rumor was Tom Cruise + Rob Thomas.
Irvine511 said:
oh, and my favorite rumor was Tom Cruise + Rob Thomas.
Irvine511 said:his children are adopted (though the rumor was that Nicole didn't want to be pregnant, but the fact remains that he didn't sire them)
Lila64 said:
Diane L said:The People magazine website has a breaking story that the TomKitten HAS been born, but no other details are available.