MissVelvetDress_75
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I give this thread 5 stars. Ewen
paxetaurora said:Hey, we should give out all the love we can.
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sallycinnamon78 said:
Boystupidboy - having read several of your posts, I find it unlikely that you've ever been anywhere near a woman (or a man, for that matter) in your life.
In a 1999 research paper, a number of learned writers sought to describe and compare various attitudes toward food. Subjects from France, Japan, Britain and America were given several foodstuffs and required to give their immediate associations. To "chocolate cake" Americans responded with "guilt"; The French countered with "celebration." (Just as to the word "cream," the Americans came out with "unhealthy" and the joyful French, "whipped.") In this context, I must declare myself allied with the French. If chocolate cake is an indulgence, please don't consider it a sinful one: It is a confection to exult in, not to regret.
This isn't about gluttony or wanton wallowing in excess. And, not least, I suspect more chocolate cake is consumed per capita in the US than in la belle France. Attitudes toward food are not just signs of psychological difference, but have enormous bearing on physical health. Of all the countries represented in the study it was mainly Americans who suggested that food consumption was a cause for worry and concern, whereas the French indicated that eating was primarily a source of pleasure. And it's the French who are considered the healthier of the two nations.
The lesson to be learned is that how we eat and what we eat has an impact on our health, ourselves, our lives..... A feast is not just a license to eat, but an invitation to celebrate life, and what it is to be truly alive.
~ from Nigella Lawson's new cookbook, Feast.
ewen said:okay, it's International Women's Day apparently.....
so this is a good excuse for you girls to ignore your diet for the day.
ewen said:
i love cooking and it's a real pain in the arse when your g/f is eating SlimFast shakes and a lettuce leaf.
sallycinnamon78 said:
I know I sound bitter. It's because, my little sister - who has gone from being a healthy size 14 to a size 6 because of her cancer - spent years starving herself and thinking she was fat. She used to get so upset when anyone called her fat, and no matter HOW many times I and everyone else told her that she wasn't fat, she wouldn't believe it. I feel so sad whenever I hear someone complaining about being "fat" - especially as, usually, they're not.
ewen said:i love cooking and it's a real pain in the arse when your g/f is eating SlimFast shakes and a lettuce leaf.
True, you don't win friends with saladJessicaAnn said:I have never met a person who was happy after eating a plate full of lettuce.