i reckon this thread should be closed. jeff you know full well sly cant know about your mother's death unless he happened to read one of the random posts it is mentioned in. i happen to know for a fact hpw you and your sister deal with your mother's passing. i remember having a conversation specifically with you and min about it. you explained it was your way. no one can question that. no one can question either that now is a sensitive time for you. it obviously is by how you are reacting. the problem here is that sly didn't know about your mum. he certainly is not one of the few people in this world cruel enough to make such a comment with that knowledge. i dont know anyone who would, personally.
what i wonder is why this is becoming a huge issue for you? if the timing is sensitive, then you have all our condolences and best wishes. if you are using an opportunity to continue this us and them fight these 2 groups of friends are in, then you have my pity.
this is ridiculous. i feel for you, jeff.
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