thrillme
Refugee
beli said:Question. (or two)
Are people who are attracted to men, attracted to showoffs? I am personally not.
I'm a little bewildered that some people are starting to find Adam Clayton, of the Irish/UK pop combo U2, attractive. He has made a few minor alterations to his appearance in recent years but nothing major. Besides the pics of Adam without glasses and with straight teeth were available for public consumption last year. It's really only been since the Vertigo tour commenced that Adams popularity has escalated. Why is this? Is this because Adam has been showing off on this tour? Adam looks pretty much the same as he did last year except this year he is suddenly attractive. Don't get me wrong. Some people may find this difficult to believe but I find Mr Clayton devilish handsome myself.
My question : Are men who are showoffs/the class clown etc more attractive than the cool quiet guy? Discuss, explore, extrapolate.
IMO, he's kinda both. He is both cool, quiet (BP Fallon says he actually kinda shy), and a bit show offy. Look how he stands when playing bass--cool, confident. He was said to be a class clown in school, he streaked the halls of his high school.
Men don't usually pose nude unless they're confident in...that area.
Think it depends how much of a show-off. If it's every once in a while, that's fine, but if it's all the time, it is a bit off-putting.
I, hard as some people find it to believe, do look for personality, how a guy is, rather than his looks specifically. I do admit I'll notice a guy's hair before anything else first, but I want a guy who's pleasant to be around.