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Old 02-16-2005, 07:58 PM   #61
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I guess what it really comes down to is this:

Be yourself.

Whether you're fat, bald, have a big nose, whatever..... If you be yourself, if you have a nice personality, are honest, sincere, kind, people will overlook all those physical flaws. They'll see that you are a beautiful person on the inside, which in turn will make them see that you are the most beautiful person on the outside. That's what being in love is all about.

It's in the eye of the beholder. A person may think that someone is the most beautiful person in the world, but everybody else may think, "eh, he/she is average or ugly."
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Old 02-16-2005, 08:01 PM   #62
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I've noticed that personality affects the way a person "looks" or carries him/herself. I've seen hot guys and just known they are so cocky and full of their own shite they have nothing intelligent to say or contribute to society. Them = losers.
and yet they're always the ones who attract women


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Old 02-16-2005, 08:08 PM   #63
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Attraction is EVERYTHING.

Nothing is more important in life than good looks.

If you're ugly or average looking, no matter how sweet or nice you are, it doesn't matter.

You can be sweet, funny, nice, easygoing, smart, sincere, ect.

But if you're not HOT, than you're not attractive. It's that simple.
I don't believe that anyone can be that mindnumbingly shallow - you are kidding right? You must be, because nobody with more than half a brain cell could believe anything so moronic.


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Having just looked at your "occupation" in your profile, I'm not really surprised at your comments.
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Old 02-16-2005, 08:14 PM   #64
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I guess we should just rid the world of all people deemed unattractive
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That's a brilliant idea.

What about the minor detail that attractiveness is subjective?
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Old 02-16-2005, 08:17 PM   #65
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You know, when I first met Colleen, I was sort of indifferent. She was really shy and we didn't talk. Then we started talking about Shakespeare for a paper we were both working on, and I picked up on how beautiful her eyes are. (Sea Green, shifts from blue to green depending on the light). And she has glasses and red hair. SO I'm like, "yeah, she's kind of cute."

BUT... we didn't start dating until the next summer. But I didn't ask her out because I thought she was beautiful...even though I think she is. I asked her out because she's intelligent (humbles me quite often), honest, and incredibly sweet. And she's got this whole geek thing I can relate to. We're on the same wavelengths quite often.

So I was physically attracted at first, but I started to fall in love with her once I got to know her. I won't even go as far as to say that lust is entirely based on looks... I know that watching her play Legend of Zelda makes me kinda hot.. So yeah, like I said, it's not all looks or all personality. It's both, in different ways at different times.
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Old 02-16-2005, 08:20 PM   #66
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I guess what it really comes down to is this:

Be yourself.

Whether you're fat, bald, have a big nose, whatever..... If you be yourself, if you have a nice personality, are honest, sincere, kind, people will overlook all those physical flaws. They'll see that you are a beautiful person on the inside, which in turn will make them see that you are the most beautiful person on the outside. That's what being in love is all about.

It's in the eye of the beholder. A person may think that someone is the most beautiful person in the world, but everybody else may think, "eh, he/she is average or ugly."
Indeed. Well, that solves that mystery!
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i am guessing that windmilllane is not in a relationship
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I find that a great personality makes a guy gorgeous, but no amount of pretty skin can make up for a repugnant personality. I am a sucker for a great voice though..... Of course, if that great voice is saying stupid or hateful things, I can get over it real quick.
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I find that a great personality makes a guy gorgeous, but no amount of pretty skin can make up for a repugnant personality.
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The thing is your all almost equate being attractive with being an arsehole thats not fair, personality is actually far more important though imo, although I've often felt I have everything but it's not enough to be the "GREAT GUY" that people need and thats just the way I feel
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Looks may catch my eye but personality will keep me interested!
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meh... anyone who says that looks don't matter is full of shit. of course they matter. someone could have the greatest personality on the face of the earth, but if they have 2 teeth, a rats nest hair-do, and they smell like crap... you ain't dating them.




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yes. Trust me, 99% of British women under 25 would much rather have an attractive jerk than an unattractive person with a nice personality. Not only do they have to be attractive, they have to be a certain type of mediattractive (ooh, I like that word) and be able to carry shopping.
I guess all British dudes try to look like David Beckham.
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