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Old 03-03-2006, 08:15 PM   #406
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^ Ye we are still talking
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Old 03-03-2006, 08:17 PM   #407
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alright...that's got to be really tough (and scary for you too), and that's another idiotic understatement from me.

just talk to her & remind her that she's got a whole future separate from that, hopefully including you guys finding a way to make it work when you're older, (right?)
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^ She's asking me to promise her that if something happens to her, I will move on, and she says she needs me to do it. I'm worried she might be thinking of suicide, like she was just over half a year ago
Is she still talking like this or is it crisis averted for the time being?
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Old 03-03-2006, 08:19 PM   #409
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^^ Ye in the long term she thinks things will be fine, but it's the next 9 or so months, that is the problem, she is just having trouble coping, if she makes it through the next 9 months she will be fine

^ She has stopped talking like that, and gone back to, well after a convo like that, the closest you can to normal
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just let her know that you need her as much as she seems to need you.

i guess.

you could find info on the internet about how to deal with this, better than what i could tell you (obviously not much)
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^^ I think she knows how much I need her

I was a pathetic wreak trying to convince her, not to go through with it, I was crying and just acting like a helpless child who has lost everything

^ Hey Sarah, nice to see you, even if it is just for a sec
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^John, has her father died recently?
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^ No a few years ago
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hey sarah

well maybe on some level that's what she needs...honestly i'm just thinking about this i know nothing about psychology...but it would make sense that on one level she needs to know how much it would upset someone, anyone in her life. i've never so seriously considered it but when i used to think about it the first thing i'd imagine was how my mom would react at my funeral. i think for some people they feel like it's a way of getting people who treat them like shit to react. i know that made no sense whatsoever but my point is i think that how you reacted was probably fine.



i'll stop now, i just hope everything's alright

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^^Like VG said (some number of posts up there ) , just try and remind her of the future and get her to concentrate on that.


oh and this too that's for you
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^^

You don't have to stop if you wish to say more go ahead

I find what you said really interesting, you make a lot of good points, and confuse me as well, sounds more like just a group of good points jsut mashed together

^ And Kara
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yeah i tend to have points that make sense to me in my head, but are hard to exactly explain and end up sounding stupid, heh

anyway like i said i hope it all turns out alright

i'm gonna go take a shower and count my blessings and things, see you all later
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^ Bye VG
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^^^I've had a few cousins commit suicide recently, and the main reason was that they didn't feel like anyone would care if they died, so I think if you really hammer in how much you seriously do care, that's probably the most and the best thing you can do.

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