October: 13 December 1981, Lido Beach was the first boot I ever owned. 11 February 1982, New Orleans and 17 March 1982, New York are also good. 4 November 1981, Berlin comes highly recommended - not only is the sound quality great, but it has a rare triple solo 11OTT. It's one of the DVDs I'll burn for you; an absolute gem for sure.
War: For the Pre-War leg, you can't go past the quality of 6 December 1982, London. For the tour proper, 26 February 1983, Dundee just for the sheer setlist WTFery, and 6 May 1983, Boston for being a quality show. 20 August 1983, Loreley is also an interesting one from the festivals run, and soundboard quality audio to boot (a few UABRS tracks came from it). I'd also recommend 5 June 1983, Red Rocks, but it looks like we're about to get the whole thing officially anyway.
Should be enough to start you off.