Zealous Texan
Babyface
sent to me by a friend, originally from from puberty101.com
Katie (15-17) asks...
My mom and me have been doing sexual stuff since I was 8. She feels better than masturbating alone. Is this ok?
Katie:
That's absolutely not okay! That's illegal and your mom could be jailed for sexual abuse. Not to mention, it may cause you to have some emotional problems in the future. You must refuse to take part in any further such activities, and I suggest you seek counseling for yourself as well as for your mom.
David (14) asks...
Since a year or so I just think about sex and masturbation ALL THE TIME! I mean I just think about having sex no matter where am I, and I'm erect almost all the time! Is this normal?
David:
Welcome to the raging hormones of Adolescence!
Tim (12-14) asks...
When my sister gets out of the shower and goes into her room to change I watch her masturbate. There is a hole in the door and I can see right between her legs and sometimes she sticks things in her vagina. Is it OK for me to do this? Is it normal?
Tim:
Well, your curiosity is perfectly normal. However, I don't think it's okay. First of all, masturbation is a private moment. Second of all, it's your sister -- that's not too cool. I suggest that that hole in the door be fixed and you respect your sister's privacy.
Bob (8 or younger) asks...
I have sex with my little brother. He is 1 year old. Is this wrong?
Bob:
Yes! Not only is it "wrong," it's also abusive and illegal. Don't do it again!
Jim (12-14) asks...
When my sister and I get bored, we sometimes dare each other to masturbate in front of the other person, or come out with just a wash rag on. Is this OK?
Jim:
Like I answered to Tim, above, I don't think it's okay to be sexual with your siblings (brothers/sisters) or other family members or relatives. Sure, you're curious of others, but that should be reserved for girlfriends, not sisters.
Mike (12-14) asks...
Is it normal to want to jump on a girl and try to have sex with her even though she resists?
Mike:
Well, this is a very touchy question. Whether or not it is "normal" or not is not as relevant as whether or not it is "right" to do such a thing. Many people fantasize about doing things that are risky or illegal, and as long as these fantasies remain fantasies -- and not actions -- I don't see much wrong in that. However, to act out some of these illegal actions -- and rape and assault are illegal -- there can be big problems. Many couples may act out these fantasies as consenting adults, and it's just an act. But to force oneself onto someone else is illegal, immoral, and punishable. This is a good example of "keeping your thoughts to yourself" and I only hope that they will not materialize into actions.
Katie (15-17) asks...
My mom and me have been doing sexual stuff since I was 8. She feels better than masturbating alone. Is this ok?
Katie:
That's absolutely not okay! That's illegal and your mom could be jailed for sexual abuse. Not to mention, it may cause you to have some emotional problems in the future. You must refuse to take part in any further such activities, and I suggest you seek counseling for yourself as well as for your mom.
David (14) asks...
Since a year or so I just think about sex and masturbation ALL THE TIME! I mean I just think about having sex no matter where am I, and I'm erect almost all the time! Is this normal?
David:
Welcome to the raging hormones of Adolescence!
Tim (12-14) asks...
When my sister gets out of the shower and goes into her room to change I watch her masturbate. There is a hole in the door and I can see right between her legs and sometimes she sticks things in her vagina. Is it OK for me to do this? Is it normal?
Tim:
Well, your curiosity is perfectly normal. However, I don't think it's okay. First of all, masturbation is a private moment. Second of all, it's your sister -- that's not too cool. I suggest that that hole in the door be fixed and you respect your sister's privacy.
Bob (8 or younger) asks...
I have sex with my little brother. He is 1 year old. Is this wrong?
Bob:
Yes! Not only is it "wrong," it's also abusive and illegal. Don't do it again!
Jim (12-14) asks...
When my sister and I get bored, we sometimes dare each other to masturbate in front of the other person, or come out with just a wash rag on. Is this OK?
Jim:
Like I answered to Tim, above, I don't think it's okay to be sexual with your siblings (brothers/sisters) or other family members or relatives. Sure, you're curious of others, but that should be reserved for girlfriends, not sisters.
Mike (12-14) asks...
Is it normal to want to jump on a girl and try to have sex with her even though she resists?
Mike:
Well, this is a very touchy question. Whether or not it is "normal" or not is not as relevant as whether or not it is "right" to do such a thing. Many people fantasize about doing things that are risky or illegal, and as long as these fantasies remain fantasies -- and not actions -- I don't see much wrong in that. However, to act out some of these illegal actions -- and rape and assault are illegal -- there can be big problems. Many couples may act out these fantasies as consenting adults, and it's just an act. But to force oneself onto someone else is illegal, immoral, and punishable. This is a good example of "keeping your thoughts to yourself" and I only hope that they will not materialize into actions.
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