Is cybersex cheating?

[AliEnvy]

Which begs the question, is cybersex sex? I'll refrain from defining cybersex to see what people have to say about it. Why hasn't this been posted before? Do people ever really talk about this openly?

Vote.

Discuss.

I have predictions on the outcome of this poll, please make me the proud sociologist I once wanted to be.

 

[KhanadaRhodes]

i said yes, female vote.

 

[MissVelvetDress_75]

i also say yes in the female vote column.

 

[Chizip]

can i vote as a female?

 

[Stories for Boys]

i said yes...female...heh

imo, it involves the same feelings, so why shouldn't it be cheating?

 

[Sicy]

Yes, female vote

 

[adamswildhoney]

yes female vote

 

[pax]

It's pretty hard to justify. I mean, if it's not cheating, what is it? "Research"? Methinks not.

(Yes, female vote.)

 

[Chizip]

if it is something you cant tell your mate about, than it is probably cheating

 

[notiti]

HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLZ NO! (Female vote and everything.)

Mainly cyber sex is just funny.

 

[Chizip]

 

[notiti]

See - you're laughing. It's funny. YATTA!

 

[beegee]

i said shades of grey, female vote.

cybersex is more like masturbation with assistance.
is phone sex cheating? is porn?

 

[ILuvLarryMullen]

good point bonosgirl

I think I'll vote shades of grey (female), but if you are repeatedly doing it with the same person then it is definately cheating

 

[cell]

if it is something you cant tell your mate about, than it is probably cheating

bingo

 

[beegee]

ok, yes...i agree with that. if you are doing it repeatedly with the same person, and there are emotions along with the sex, then yes, it's definitely cheating.

 

[Salome]

cybersex is more like masturbation with assistance.

sounds like a lot of hard work

 

[ABEL]

imo, it involves the same feelings, so why shouldn't it be cheating?

I feel this same way about it. The intent, feelings and actions are the same, so imo it is cheating. It's not just 'fantasizing' when it involves another person.

I voted yes, female vote.

 

[diamond]

Somebody just ask Mike.

 

[tiny dancer]

Yes. Female vote.

 

[LarryMullen's POPAngel]

Yes, female vote.

 

[foray]

salome you're precious

sounds like a lot of hard work

Hahahahaha!!


yarof

 

[nbcrusader]

Absolutely. Male vote.

 

[Johnny Swallow]

If cyber-sex is cheating, then you could say that you can lose your virginity online. It's not cheating, no more than reading dirty magazines at least.

 

[nbcrusader]

If cyber-sex is cheating, then you could say that you can lose your virginity online.

I think you are mixing the concepts of relationship with a physical act.

 

[Johnny Swallow]

I think you are mixing the concepts of relationship with a physical act.

If you're carrying on an online relationship, of course that's cheating. But if we're just talking about some random cyber sex, that's nothing more than text and your own imagination. It's not exactly proper but I wouldn't say it's cheating.

 

[Headache in a Suitcase]

masturbation with assistance.

funny... that's the same line mofo used when cujo found him alone with chizip...

 

[MissVelvetDress_75]

 

[Sicy]

Somebody just ask Mike.

You care to explain that one diamond?

I suggest you keep other forum members' personal business off the public boards.

 

[diamond]

You care to explain that one diamond?
.

apparantly somebody jumped to conclusions..