pax said:
U2@NYC said:
We have too many female mods in this forum...
ewen said:
currently, we have too many shallow people in this forum more like.
why are no other mods checking u2@nyc for his on going personal remarks towards Pax?
is pax not allowed an opinion, is she not allowed to part-take in discussions because she's a mod? stop playing the mod card on her. it's low. she remarked about someone's suggestion to hold a poll for 'best' interference woman. it's terrible idea, what next? a poll for the ugliest?
these threads are shit and do more damage than fun.
ewen said:
currently, we have too many shallow people in this forum more like.
why are no other mods checking u2@nyc for his on going personal remarks towards Pax?
Dalton said:
While I am sure there are better ways to spend a day than posting pictures of pretty people, I don't think its fair to call NY 'shallow" (a personal attack I might add).
I could be wrong, but I don't remember NY making this a value thing. He isn't saying that these women are better or more valuable than other people because of the physical features. That would be shallow.
I haven't seen him do that. He is admiring women that he thinks are attractive. Silly? Yes. Shallow? Most likely. But it certainly doesn't give you the right to define his entire personality.
ewen said:
It does give me the right when he made personal remarks towards me in the other "hot chick" thread and is on-going with personal remarks to Pax.
ewen said:
It does give me the right when he made personal remarks towards me in the other "hot chick" thread and is on-going with personal remarks to Pax.
Dalton said:
Does it?
If you think he's an idiot (and it seems you do) just ignore him. I appreciate your wanting to stick up for Pax - she seems quite capable on her own.
pax said:Right, because it would be so sweet to put up pictures of Interference girls and have their faces, bodies, and characters analyzed.
You just don't get it, do you? I'm not about to let LS become an environment where girls read threads and then become depressed, sad, and upset because they think they're not as "pretty" or "thin" as some girls. LS is not your personal playground. It's a place for EVERYONE.
This has gone on long enough, and I think I've been more than understanding. I let your original thread go, I let you post this thread, and I only asked that you refrain from commenting in certain ways in the Octagon Bar threads--I never said you couldn't post there. Part of my job is to try to create an environment where people don't feel judged, where people feel safe and comfortable. A thread like that would definitely work against that goal.
I don't care if you were kidding or not in your last post. I won't let a thread like that happen.
And FYI, *I* didn't close your original thread. Probably KhanadaRhodes did, judging by the time it was closed.
ewen said:
Of course it gives me the right. He made personal remarks (twice) directed to me. I did choose, actually, to ignore it the second time. It's his on-going snide remarks towards Pax I am now objecting to.
Yes I'll stick up for Pax, nobody else seems to be. She's apparently got friends here. They all seem to be too chicken shit to say anything in fear of coming across "boring".
U2@NYC said:
LS has never been my personal playground and I do not intend it to be so. However, please accept that if a "Hottest Chick" thread reaches 500 posts relatively quick and has over 11,000 views in less than a week, there might be a significant amount of Interferencers that enjoy it, as superficial as it may seem to you.
the soul waits said:
The old "an eye for an eye"-thing?
Your definition of shallow may not be someone elses, Ewen, I take offense in your statement that someone is shallow when they like to post pix of women they think are cute, it's all in good fun, imo.
At least, it started that way.
ewen said:
It does give me the right when he made personal remarks towards me in the other "hot chick" thread and is on-going with personal remarks to Pax.
ewen said:
Of course it gives me the right. He made personal remarks (twice) directed to me. I did choose, actually, to ignore it the second time. It's his on-going snide remarks towards Pax I am now objecting to.
FlyYourKite said:Thanks for the apology U2@NYC. It's unfortunate that things got so out of hand, my intentions for posting here were just for fun. Anyhow, you don't have to close this thread...just let the voting be done and then it will be the end of it.
Oh and I seriously don't need or want a prize for this, but thanks anyway.
MrsSpringsteen said:I don't think it's necessarily "shallow" to appreciate good looking men and women, and I also think if people have issues w/ their looks/self-esteem it has much more to do w/ other things far beyond this type of thread on a msg board.
MrsSpringsteen said:I don't think it's necessarily "shallow" to appreciate good looking men and women, and I also think if people have issues w/ their looks/self-esteem it has much more to do w/ other things far beyond this type of thread on a msg board.
pax said:
That said, all personal issues aside, this thread needs to get back on track. Some people like it, some people definitely don't. As it stands, it violates no FAQs (except for the personal comments which have gone in both directions). U2@NYC et al. can finish their voting if someone would like to steer the thread back that way. Otherwise, I'll be closing it.