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Old 10-09-2002, 01:29 PM   #1
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Girls (generally) are quite comfortable in doing this? what about guys?

I have felt comfortable sharing a bed with a friend........on several occasions in the past, be it no other bed or for warmth, or to share....whatever......

but how many guys out there have done this with their friend.......and if not, Im interested in why guys dont feel as comfortable sharing, even as friends, as girls do......


I feel very comfortable with it........even though one time her feet was up my honker...

so like...

have any guys done this?????


Im not implying anything sexual here by the way, even though it seems that way....its a question more of...........comfortable with the situation, or feeling more awkward......

ya get?



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Old 10-09-2002, 01:36 PM   #2
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I dont mind sharing a bed with another girl. No biggie.

I think guys have more of a problem with it though.
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My spin on it.

I don't have a problem with it at all. My bed was in LA up until about 2 weeks ago so I did not have one and the girl whose house that I live in now was nice enough to let me sleep with her for about 2 months until I could go home and get mine.

I don't mind sleeping in the same bed with male friends either.

I think guys are by nature more phobic about these things. Beds to them have more of an intimate sexual nature associated with them I think. Think about the whole gay seat space that they put between them and another guy when they go to the movies.
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Old 10-09-2002, 02:10 PM   #4
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I wouldn't feel comfortable with either a man or a woman in my bed (except for my girlfriend)

they all want me for my body
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they all want me for my body
It must be hard being you.
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as long as it is always ass-to-ass I have no problem...
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I think it amusing that you are ok with it with certain stipulations.
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you mean men and women can sleep in the same bed???


those 50's sitcoms I've been watchign are awfully misleading
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I've taken some trips with a bunch of guys in the past (Spring Break in college, and weekends away with the boys) where in order to save $$, 4 or more would cram into 1 hotel room. So guys obviously would share a bed. There is no problem with it as long as each guy doesn't cross that imaginary center line.
Just like Steve Martin and John Candy in "Planes, Trains and Automobiles".
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I've never shared a bed with a female friend. I want my peace when I'm in bed; mostly, that is.
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they all want me for my body

Organdonor,....


I will never sleep in a bed with a male in it.
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I must be weird

I always feel uncomfortable when I have to share a bed with someone in a platonic fashion.

I think it's because I talk and move around alot in my sleep, and wouldn't want to do anything embarassing.
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I grew up with only sister's, we shared a bed, no worries.
So the fact I have 3 sons,does make me ponder Q's like this at times...thanks maddie. They all have their own room at home, be they ever so small.

My eldest is the "sensible one" with his group of mates. They stay in beach houses sometimes with so many people in one tiny house, they are either sharing beds or taking turns to sleep. As my eldest is the the most sober, he's usually the one that misses out on a bed. The other's just 'die" in the nearest bed,whether it is allocated theirs or not. So I think he often has to curl up next to someone. I always pack sunscreen, plenty of food and condoms for them.
Not for his 20th birthday though, I was very pleased about this stoke of luck, someone up there likes him. For his twenty birthday recently, they got a suite on the 17th floor of the Novotel at Surfer's Paradise for $50.( a friend of a friend) They crammed about 20 people into those rooms......oh dear..do i want to know?
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I have no problem sharing a bed with another girl (well, unless she kept on hitting me in her sleep or something). In high school I went on some trips with the band, and there would be 4 people and 2 beds per room. The girls never had a problem sleeping 2 to a bed, but every guy I talked to said that they worked out a system where they'd switch off which 2 guys got the beds and which 2 got the floor. I don't understand what the big deal is- they were fairly large beds!
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every guy I talked to said that they worked out a system where they'd switch off which 2 guys got the beds and which 2 got the floor. I don't understand what the big deal is- they were fairly large beds!
must be a guy thing....
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