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Old 07-18-2003, 08:03 PM   #1
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Friends with "benefits"

Would you have sex with your friend even if you weren't "together"?

Discuss.
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I had this chance last summer.


I decided not to, got screwed anyway.
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would, have, and will again
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Old 07-18-2003, 09:12 PM   #4
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Depends on the friend.
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Old 07-18-2003, 10:21 PM   #5
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well, i wouldn't have sex with anyone at this point in my life...so i'm going to say no...that and i believe sex out of wedlock is pointless, oxy moronic, and morally wrong. but hey, that's just my opinion...
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nope. but i know people who do have that on call friend who is simply a "booty call" and nothing more.
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uh, i know we're getting together next wednesday.
what exactly are you trying to say?

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It's hard to say yes or no, I'd say its totally situation dependant. But in general, i think it's an okay thing to do, and I might, depending on the situation of course.
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I see no problem with it.
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uh, i know we're getting together next wednesday.
what exactly are you trying to say?


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so, i guess i should answer my own question...i've been there done that and i dont want to do it again. it wasn't recent, but its a bad choice i made. recently my "friend" wanted to, but i said no. then i found out later he's still with his gf. i felt sick that he would cheat on her, and relieved that i told him no. i guess it depends on the friendship, and character. thats my answer and im sticking to it.
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Some people, you can't live with them, you can't live without them.

No relevance really.

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Hmm...in general I don't really like the idea of friends with benefits and I would say no if you value this friend as a person much. I personally couldn't use someone just for sex, whether she was fine with it or not. Inevitably I would want something more, and that's where things get even more complicated . I've kinda sorta done this, although I was dating my friend at the time, so it wasn't by any means a mere booty call (more like her rebound, but hey... ).

Hopefully if you get into this kind of situation you could see yourself together with the other person.
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Hmm...in general I don't really like the idea of friends with benefits and I would say no if you value this friend as a person much. I personally couldn't use someone just for sex, whether she was fine with it or not. Inevitably I would want something more, and that's where things get even more complicated...
Hopefully if you get into this kind of situation you could see yourself together with the other person.

that is how i see it.
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cujo and mofo have been friends with benefits for years now... and they seem to get along just fine.
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