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Old 07-19-2003, 02:33 PM   #16
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No!!!!

I would throw up.
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Old 07-19-2003, 03:53 PM   #17
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I imagine many a good friendship has been ruined by sex. It's a dangerous game, but to each his own.

And I'd be curious to know, for those who have been successful at this, when one of you got into a new relationship, did you tell your partner about it and do you still hang around with that friend?
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Old 07-19-2003, 04:37 PM   #18
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YES!

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Old 07-19-2003, 04:39 PM   #19
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What made it work out so well do you think?
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Old 07-19-2003, 04:43 PM   #20
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What made it work out so well do you think?
Oh sorry, I wasn't intentionally responding to your query. I couldn't control myself and just voted yes to the thread.

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Old 07-19-2003, 05:03 PM   #21
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this ratio doesnt really exist. and its irrelevant for me. really.

depends on the hotness of the girl (represented by hgirl) to the quality of friendship (represented by fquality) ratio.

also written as hgirl : fquality. it has to be at least 3:1 to do the deed unless the quality of friendship is below 3, in which case the person isnt considered much of a friend anyway.

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Old 07-19-2003, 05:14 PM   #22
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You have proven yet another postulate of the Riemann Sum Kobe.

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Old 07-19-2003, 08:16 PM   #23
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im not about cheap sex
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Re: this ratio doesnt really exist. and its irrelevant for me. really.

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depends on the hotness of the girl (represented by hgirl) to the quality of friendship (represented by fquality) ratio.

also written as hgirl : fquality. it has to be at least 3:1 to do the deed unless the quality of friendship is below 3, in which case the person isnt considered much of a friend anyway.

what an interesting and confusing equation.

emotionless sex does not interest me at all. besides i wouldn't want to know how my male friends look naked and how they are in the sack that thought makes me want to
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I say in theory yes... but in practice no.


No matter what ground rules you set up, someone will almost always start to have feelings beyond friendship. I guess it can work in certain situations but probably not for me.
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Both people have to be completely honest about what they want and what they expect. There are people in the world who can have emotionless sex (that sounds harsh), where they don't have to be involved with the person they're sleeping with and it's no big. If both people feel that way, go for it.
There are so many situations where it's not that way, where one of the friends has strong feelings and thinks that by sleeping with their friend, somehow something will click and the two of them will end up together. No good can come of it.
Sex with exes is pretty much the same thing. I had a friend who was sleeping with his ex-wife and completely clueless to the fact that she was still in love with him and hoping to win him back.
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Re: this ratio doesnt really exist. and its irrelevant for me. really.

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depends on the hotness of the girl (represented by hgirl) to the quality of friendship (represented by fquality) ratio.

also written as hgirl : fquality. it has to be at least 3:1 to do the deed unless the quality of friendship is below 3, in which case the person isnt considered much of a friend anyway.

I jsut needs some clarification here Kobe....the scale...is 1 being a high/positive in the ratings department, or is it a low/negative. It reads as 1 is low, but I would also have to know exaclty what the top end of the scale is. 3:1 could be REALLY bad, or, say, if the scale is based on a scale of 5, 1 could be the lowest number, but not as bad as, say, 1 on a 1-100 scale. Catch my drift?
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better quantification of values can lead to better sex for you and all your friends

lol

the scales are measured out of 10 with 1 being the lowest and 10 being the highest. the threshold should have been 1, in other words if the fquality is lower than 1...well than it doesnt matter about the ratio. you barely know the person.

so a 9:3 meets the criteria but only by a bit, theyre an alright friend. on the other hand the person is apparently really hot.
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Old 07-21-2003, 09:30 AM   #29
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I wouldn't dream of it!!!

Until that darn grog takes over. Oh how the grog makes me do naughty things. Oh the shame!!! The shame!!! I'll never get drunk again...

Ahhhhh who am I kidding...
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Anything with a hgirl factor of 8 or higher I think often blinds the mjudgement factor, and may really negate the fquality factor in a lot of cases.

Just my opinion.
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