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Old 03-03-2008, 12:19 AM   #826
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night dalt, thanks for the advice. i'm wisshing i'd added "i know it's soon but..." to the beginning of my text.
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Old 03-03-2008, 12:22 AM   #827
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Like I said I wasn't a glimmer in her sky. She was amazing and I was nothing. The same as now just a hopeless romantic looking for love. I tried to get her to notice me but no. It was a long three years...
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Old 03-03-2008, 12:24 AM   #828
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Like I said I wasn't a glimmer in her sky. She was amazing and I was nothing. The same as now just a hopeless romantic looking for love. I tried to get her to notice me but no. It was a long three years...

You're puttin' the pussy on a pedestal.
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night dalt, thanks for the advice. i'm wisshing i'd added "i know it's soon but..." to the beginning of my text.

I wouldn't worry about it. I had a lot of friends that needed a woman who was more aggressive because they were so passive. But it usually took them a little while to relax in that kind of set up. He might have been shocked at first, but he'll wake up tomorrow and realize that its a good thing.
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Old 03-03-2008, 12:27 AM   #830
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I can't have sex with any guy I want but I usually get my way, and I appreciate that I'm lucky cause I wasn't always as successful and some of my good friends aren't.

So... you were in unrequitted love with a very pretty girl who had "the dark side of sex" (what is this? prostitution? std? preggers?) destroy her. Did this cause your current opinion on sex being only for when you are mutually in love?
Child molestation, rape and a form of prostitution. Then she became pregnant. Sex is dangerous. I don't want to put someone through that unless they are in love with me. It can be very special but sex for me is about loneliness. You are either more together than you will ever be or all alone. I won't open up to someone unless I am in love. So yeah. It shaped my opinion.
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BTW, I would put my little girl up against any of you in a battle of wills. Good lord, just go to sleep.
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Old 03-03-2008, 12:48 AM   #832
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I wouldn't worry about it. I had a lot of friends that needed a woman who was more aggressive because they were so passive. But it usually took them a little while to relax in that kind of set up. He might have been shocked at first, but he'll wake up tomorrow and realize that its a good thing.
sorry got lost watching the wire.

I hate, hate being aggressive, because I always have been bold and willing to be but I'd far, far prefer the guy make the move, particularly because it indicates that he is the masculine/take charge type I like - I am very bold, but I don't want to wear the fucking pants.

But if it gets it done and otherwise nothing would have happened, I'll make the move. in this case I figured, I'm going into the city anyway, why not let him know. it would have been better if it were thursday or something.
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Child molestation, rape and a form of prostitution. Then she became pregnant. Sex is dangerous. I don't want to put someone through that unless they are in love with me. It can be very special but sex for me is about loneliness. You are either more together than you will ever be or all alone. I won't open up to someone unless I am in love. So yeah. It shaped my opinion.
um, wow, that sucks.

Sex isn't always dangerous.

I don't think sex is about loneliness or togetherness - I think it's about getting off. When I had sex with the guy I was in love with, it was about getting each other off, feeling connected etc. but still getting off, and I don't think the rest of the sex I've had has been either lonely or together, mostly it's been two people who want to get laid and find the other person passably attractive or attractive or whatever.
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I don't think sex is about loneliness or togetherness - I think it's about getting off. When I had sex with the guy I was in love with, it was about getting each other off, feeling connected etc. but still getting off, and I don't think the rest of the sex I've had has been either lonely or together, mostly it's been two people who want to get laid and find the other person passably attractive or attractive or whatever.
But there is so much more to it than that. There has to be. If sex can create so much damage it has to be capable of the opposite and create something truly special for two people. Sex can open up a new universe to a person. It is a different kind of consciousness. It is capable of communion between body and the flesh. It has to.
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But there is so much more to it than that. There has to be. If sex can create so much damage it has to be capable of the opposite and create something truly special for two people. Sex can open up a new universe to a person. It is a different kind of consciousness. It is capable of communion between body and the flesh. It has to.
I think it depends entirely on a person's attitude, which is why I say sex isn't always dangerous, and it doesn't always have to be special or lonely or be all end all - it can be whatever you make of it, just as most things you do. Sex can create or reinforce a connection between two people, and it is indeed different/better in some ways to have sex with somebody you love, sometimes. However, sex is most definitely not a new universe or different kind of conciousness, and it doesn't have to be these things, and I have no idea where you get this stuff but you are in for a world of let down or a lifetime of illusions.
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Just checking in to say hello. I will be around a lot more tomorrow and Tuesday than I have been this weekend.
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tourist, do read over Screwtape's latest musings on sex.
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